Ahh that’s a great sign though that you had lots of clear pre-cum, that’s a sign that you’re on your way to a prostate orgasm! I would 100% recommend buying a prostate sex toy rather than using your fingers! If your main issue at the moment is with the strain on your hand, a handsfree prostate massager like an Aneros might be perfect?
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I would definitely recommend using a prostate massaging sex toy rather than your fingers and definitely be careful, I think Lovehoney advise not to share sex toys so might be best to buy your own now, specifically for prostate massaging? And if you can unlock prostate orgasms then that’ll be an amazing workaround haha! 
Plus, the key to prostate orgasms is to NOT touch your penis, so you’re in the perfect situation haha!
Yes, I have with and without a prostate massager.
But I have noticed, when I use the prostate massager with a fleshligh, my orgasms are unbelievable. Wet or dry.
Sometimes I will even have an dry orgasm when I am using a prostate massager while hoovering or something. Moving around makes me orgasm realy hard sometimes.
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Amazing!! Do you mean you’re literally walking around with your prostate massager around the house haha?!
The vibrator is one that doesn’t get used, other than by me! Unfortunately another spoiled session , loads of finger play, nearer to getting the vibe fully in but not near enough I am afraid. I can feel and massage the prostate but no orgasm, yet. I have another chance tomorrow…perseverance will one day pay off.
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I’ve got lots of different excellent toys and can hit my prostrate gland good for some milking and pre cum. I can build up the pressure or rubbing thrusting speed and it feels like what I guess to be a wet prostate orgasm coming on.
Feels really good then wee starts coming out 
I wee before. Wee with a butt plug in. Wee when I move from butt plug to a glass dildo or prostate massager or vibrating g spot dildo and go for it again think I’m finally going to get one and wee again.
It’s not the end of the world and I carry on and use niple suckers, cock ring, vibrating mastubator and have massive penile orgasm but will hopefully eventually get a wet or dry super o… Without the wee!
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Hmm I’m trying to work out what might be going wrong, definitely do try using a sex toy like the vibrator as that will help! What stage (based on some of the thread comments above) are you reaching towards achieving the prostate orgasm?
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Ahh amazing, what toys do you have?? Very interesting… that “wee” that coming out, if it’s clear then that’s the wet prostate orgasm, which obviously after a few times of that does seem to become wee (as maybe there’s no more pre-cum left haha) but the absolute key that I found to the big, full body, dry prostate orgasms is to AVOID those wet prostate orgasms!! You want the build up of pre-cum to get so much from being so turned on and massaging your prostate so much that your body just HAS to have the dry prostate orgasm to release all the built up sexual pressure! Does that make sense? My best technique for avoiding the wet postate orgasms is to slow down, 100% make sure to not have that wet prostate orgasm, then once the feeling subsides I go faster again and honestly, that’s usually when the dry full body prostate orgasm takes over! So it sounds like you’re almost there, 80% of the way, just dodge those wet prostate orgasms and you’ll make it over that last, amazing hurdle!
Cheers @UKlovingcouple - I’ve got the large full hard plastic aneros progasm. I put that into the right spot lay down and watch porn for up to 45 minutes relaxed not touching anything and unfortunately haven’t received dry o.
I have 7 inch beaded lovehoney glass dildo and lovehoney vibrating g spot dildo. Last one of for women bit also works great for me as it’s firm silicone.
I also have a vibrating and rotating prostrate massager but it’s a bit too small for me I think.
The wee is clear.
A lot clearer than my normal wee.
I have to stop the wee then go for wee over toilet with my toy still in my backside butt.
I have read that a wet prostrate orgasm can be very clear and wee like but this is lots / I would flood bathroom floor if I let it all out.
Maybe anatomically I might just be unlucky. But won’t give up just yet.
The car end of glass dikdo is 5.6 inches circumference and tried your trick just inside but couldn’t achieve that way either.
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Just researched again and think I suffer from male squirting! You can copy and paste either of these quotes and should bring up the articles:
In male squirting, urine in the bladder gushes out from the external urethral orifice due to strong contraction of the prostate and pelvic striated muscles.
I finally thought to look up “male version of squirting” and found several posts describing the phenomenon. There’s another way to do it that is more commonly described: hold your rod with one hand, and then rub just the tip really fast with your well-lubed other hand, and push when you feel something wanting to come out. I’ve tried this a couple of times and sort of succeeded, but the anal method is way better for me.
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Ahh I’ve got specific the Aneros Progasm too!
The wee situation for you (as you also described in your other message) is definitely going to be the thing that keeps getting in your way from reaching that dry prostate orgasm, if you can find some way of avoiding those wee’s from happening while you massage your prostate then that will help you to get closer to reaching the dry prostate orgasm, but I appreciate that might be difficult, especially if this keeps happening to you!
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Tried last night again with
Lay on back , feet up flat up against wall.
Kept getting sensation, build up that wanted to and was about to cum but then would die off , kept going for about 20mins with this up down sensation. But then started tailoring off and finished off with hand !!
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That’s great and sounds amazing, great choice of Aneros! That sounds really amazing regardless but you’ll get to the prostate orgasm soon I’m sure, it sounds like you’re definitely on the right track!
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The interesting thing here was once I started wearing thongs embracing swx with men and women became more intuitive. My first guy at 15 was my bf with a huge thick 10” cock and I expected it to hurt and when he started to slide it in it was the opposite. It felt incredible. I was like holy shit.
It was the same for both of us. Our orgasms were more intense and better than anything and the third day I had my first anal orgasm and it was a water shed moment. My ass was similar to a woman’s clitoris in that it creates this amazing sexual feeling that only got better.
The anal orgasm is like nothing any guy can experience. It’s so intense and long I feel like I lose my mind. I tell any guy to try and experience it
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I get that feeling of needing to wee when using the LH Booty Buddy.
I’ve never had any kind of orgasmic sensations when playing with my prostate. In fact I’m not even sure that the Booty Buddy is hitting the right spot. I’ve tried to probe around a little with it inside me, with or without the vibrations, but nothing ever feels “Wow!”
I’ll try with my finger when I next get the chance to play alone, but I just think anal play is not for me. I have tried finger play before but it was really difficult and I still didn’t feel like I had found the spot.
When I use the butt plugs I have or the Booty Buddy, I find that my anus becomes the focus of all other sensations. i.e., if I am masturbating in the traditional way while the Booty Buddy is inserted, all sensations in and around my penis/balls are gone. I can force myself to cum with my penis, but it’s hard work. The resulting orgasm is really intense, but not particularly pleasurable. It’s like all the flavours have been removed. Does that make sense?
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Hi @anon62893628 how are you hope your well would love to get that sort of feeling . What toys would you recomend 
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I jus got prostate accessorise for the wand. Does anyone know if it’s good?
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Hi @Dom624 i dont know what there like but would love to know what they are like when you have had a go with them
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Will do. The wand is for a clit usually,plugs into the mains so has serious power! I have an accessory that goes on top, has prostate massager or penis stimulation. It’s rubber so won’t feel as firm inside as a proper one but the vibration from it is very strong so hopefully get me my first p climax
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Lol sounds like fun , so what would be the best toy for this any recommendations
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