Ill start out by saying keeping yourself safe and making wise choices to have safe sex it very important to prevent stds etc…
Which do you prefer though? Sex with a condom that includes guys wearing a condom or the use of a female condom for girls either or. Or sex with no protection? Why?
Also sex without protection are you using any form of birth control?
Now for me I will say i am allergic to latex. It makes me all ichy and that does not feel good inside you know where. I know there are other condoms that are latex free but not always available. I do prefer still unprotected sex. To me it just feels so much better the skin on skin feelings as well as feeling the warmth inside. Im on birth control (most of the time unless i get in the mood for more risky play). I go to the gyno once a month as well to be checked and screened.
Im married so may be a different lifestyle than what youre thinking but i much prefer no condoms. It just feels better. If it was someone new though, i still prefer no condom, but wouldnt risk it. I do take the pill also. Ive had my kids and i dont want any more
Unprotected sex is way better…more spontaneous…skin on skin and the heavy pheromones in the air to inhale are awesome…and like you I have an allergy to some condoms…
Don’t like the smell of them or the taste and feel of them either…I gag just at the smell of them…
Had unprotected sex with every partner but have always been on birth control for contraception and my horrendous menorrhagia except of course when pregnant…
I always got myself checked out after every partner at the sexual health clinic too.
I was a swinger for 10 years, always used latex free condoms. No exceptions. I still got tested every 4-6 weeks.
Had a couple of guys remove condoms without my consent and I was beyond devastated and it put an end of having penetrative sex with men.
With my now partner, we dont need to use them as we both tested negative before starting anything sexual.
Unless I was in a relationship or was exclusive with a sexual partner, I always used condoms and got tested every 3 months. Really handy to get to sent to my house and I send it back through the post.
I used Skyns, which are latex free and very available. With a partner, once we were exclusive we’d stop using condoms. I don’t have concerns of pregnancy, so that wasn’t an issue. I prefer the full skin to skin contact and it feels natural. That would be my preference in any future relationships, as long as the partner agreed. If not, then we’d use Skyns.
Before the snip we used condoms for 10 years. It was fine, no complaints.
Before the condoms she was on the pill for 3 years when we were newlyweds. It was nice to have no worries there, but when she came off the pill it was like the tiger that I had been dating was let back out of a cage.
If I had a time machine, I’d go back to our younger selves and say, “Dude, man up and just wear the condoms (with a recommendation for Skyn Elite). They’re fine. The sex is so much better off the pill.”
Anyway. I love cumming inside my wife, anytime, anywhere.
I prefer unprotected for long term relationships. Mainly due to the extra feeling and less bother during the moment. BUT I have had condoms split, without knowing and not known the difference. Also had them split and hear the twang and feel the difference. Point being as a bloke I often couldn’t tell the difference despite what I desired.
For me, without definitely feels better but like others above, I’m in an exclusive long term relationship so no risk of STDs anyway. When I was single, for casual sexual encounters we always used a condom, not worth the risk for a little extra feel and connection
Long term or casual, always birth control for me though!!! I’m not at all maternal and have never wanted kids. I’m on depo which suits me very well, I had to come off it for the bone density risk reason a while back and switched to the implant. I didn’t like that in comparison and have now been allowed back onto depo for the next 11 years. Hooray.
Both i like her watching me put the condom on or putting it on for me and also enjoy unprotected for the excitement risk factor and pullng out at the last moment
No condoms for us either - hate the bloody things, just everything about them. Especially, not being able to feel him inside of me, I love the skin to skin contact and when he finishes inside of me I love to feel that too. I’ve got the coil fitted anyway.
My little circle of partners (a polyfidelity marriage) is quite closed. So, no need for protection. And if my husband ever tried using a condom, I’d be rather offended. Exchanging fluids is a big part of sex for me.
We had a few condom failures (we both laugh now when we remember how “real” the Durex RealFeel condom felt - because it was real feel!), I don’t mind condoms, they can feel “naughty” sometimes, like doing something I shouldn’t really be doing. Asides that though? I prefer barried-free (but with birth control).
The only let down for the allergies to latex is some lingerie. Ill go without the condom even if i didnt have the allergies. I know what you mean the smell is not pleasant for me too. As in taste idk never have. Definitely smart to get checked and cleared after hook ups.
I know the lifestyle in that. Sorry someone went that low without concent. Thats definitely not right to do. Glad to hear the relationship now sounds like its working out well.
I bet thats a load off your shoulders to be able to go anywhere anytime now. Enjoy it always. I dont mind taking birth control but every once in awhile i go off of it.
