Sam66 wrote:
I'd quite like to ... reduce the foliage (so to speak!) but she prefers a more natural look on me. I don't really get it, but she likes it and I guess that's the main thing?
Of course, but if you really want to give it a go, have a chat with her, see if she minds you trying it in a subtle way.....it'll always grow back External Media
Ax
I've tried ... OH I'VE TRIED!!!!!!!!!!!When I had the dreaded 'V' (operation) I thought that would be a good time to broach it as she was happily shaving me (something I found hugely erotic and a VERY nice time was had once she'd finished... )
But she wanted it only as a one off ...
Sam66 wrote:
I've tried ... OH I'VE TRIED!!!!!!!!!!!When I had the dreaded 'V' (operation) I thought that would be a good time to broach it as she was happily shaving me (something I found hugely erotic and a VERY nice time was had once she'd finished... External Media)
But she wanted it only as a one off ... External Media
A few people on here go between shaved and natural as the mood takes....would your lady not like it if you just "neatened" things up a bit? Shaved around the edges and the base like Nexas said?....seems an odd thing to be bothered about but I guess people have their dislikes.
Ax
I'm having a haircut on Friday so perhaps I'll ask for a trim then ...?!?!?!?!?!?
I wonder if she'd notice if I had a short front and sides?
Despite me being pretty much au naturelle I've been contemplating Nexus' ball shaving - so to speak OH likes them sucked and licked - which is fine - but can be a bit tricky as they're hairy. I mean I might have pubes but they're not on my clit are they!! I did mention once it's difficult and a bit off -putting and I think he said "Do you want me to shave them then?" but I said "no" because I thought it might be awkward or as a guy he might not feel comfortable doing that and was just saying it... maybe I'll mention it again and point out if he did take the hair off then only I'd see and they'd get A LOT more attention!
When I say "awkward" I mean logistically... like do you use an electric razor or a blade?? Just looks like it might be tricky with them having excess skin lol
I have done before! But he says it's fine and there aren't any stray ones!
I do wonder though!!!!
hmm, well I have trimmed recently and decided to take it all off around my bum - I now have a rather uncomfortable and unsightly rash around my arse This has happened when I've ventured down this route before. I think I am just not meant to be bare! OH likes me however I come... I think I've said before, but his view is that some women are better keeping the hair there as aesthetically they don't look very 'pretty' down there but assures me I can go with either look. I did take it all off last valentine's day. He cooked me dinner and I wore a dress and heels and no knickers. He ran his hand up my leg and then when he realised I'd taken it off he instantly got hard. He liked it but really doesn't mind either way. He did comment earlier that it's looking lovely at the moment though - with it being trimmed a bit. I just don't seem to get on well with the shaving thing! I also wonder if preference for shaven is linked to age... I know both OH and male friends I have in their 30s really aren't bothered and in some cases actually really wouldn't like a woman to be shaven as it would seem very unnatural. Yet, in porn etc women are usually shaven nowadays and often in women's magazines there seems to be discussion about being hairless - it seems it's more of a cultural thing. So I wondered if men in their teens and 20s are so used to seeing images of women like that it's influencing how men and women now groom themselves?? Im assured there are no stray hairs during oral and I personally really don't feel cleaner when I've taken the hair off (in fact it's probably the opposite for me!) so I'm happy as I am but just find it very interesting that a lot of people on here do seem to take it all off.
My main point anyway, is about my poorly sore bum!!
We've both been clean shaven for several years now. It started when we were on holiday in a hot climate and I found I was getting really sweaty in the pubes area, so decided to shave the lot.
It is a bit prickly and itchy the first two or three times, but once the old hair has grown out and new growth comes through it gets a lot softer and easier to shave.
We both also found that it's best to shave 'with the grain' as it were - trying to shave against the natural lay of the hair always gave us both a rash; so maybe that's what's going on with you, Columbus?
lol @ MH!
Thanks for the advice 5mil - maybe that's part of it....
I use a epolator that always does the job I prefer a women shaved or trimmed and wouldnt like a hairy bum lol
Well women do have hair! Porn has a lot to answer for ! And 'ouch' at the epilator! I use one on my legs and I can't see that going anywhere near my nether regions!
Lol I agree on the porn thing...could definately do with some variety! I love pussy's from completely shaved to a full bush and everything in between. I'm fairly sure I'm not alone in this so it's a shame that porn doesn't reflect differing tastes better!
xxKPxx
I mean I should clarify although I'm au naturelle or sometimes trim it, it's not like a forest or anything! It's actually fairly controlled of its own accord LOL I think I'm just mean to be as Mother Nature intended! TBH I absolutely do not feel cleaner or sexier or anything on the couple of occasions I've shaven it all off. I think it's probably more to do with me feeling that I should be doing that! And my lovely Elcano has seen a variety of 'flowers' as he calls them - all shapes, sizes and foliage - and he likes mine as it is. So I guess if we're both happy with it then I should leave well alone and stop giving myself uncomfortable rashes because of watching people who are paid to act and look a certain way in porn LOL
I shall now climb down from my soapbox and go and be happy with my body!
lol ok iv been epolating for months after the 3rd go it dosnt hurt no more but it flamming does the firsttime, I dont really mind what it like down there as long as its not to hairy, defently dont like haiy arm pits :s I have seen porn where the women still have pubic hair and that can be a real turn on, what do u think about men shaving off all there pubes is it a turn on or not.
It defently seem to make things look bigger lol
I really don't mind whether my OH shaves or trims his pubic hair or leaves it alone completely, I'm generally just happy to have gotten him naked! I think he looks equally sexy either way, it's just fun to have slightly different pubic hairsyles every now and again for a bit of a change.
xxKPxx
varrity is the fuel of life lol
I never even realised men did shave/trim until I came on this site (again, other than some bare balls banging away in porn) and it's not like I haven't seen a few Elcano is a particularly hairy creature (as in back/shoulders...) but I'm used to that now and think a hairless man would feel now LOL He'a also au naturelle on the pube front and, again, it just never really occured to me that it might be worth trimming. He's big anyway so he doesn't really need to trim for the aesthetic benefits it may bring LOL Although I have said elsewhere/and to him that if he shaved his balls they might get more attention! But I'd hate him to end up with some uncomfortable rash like me! It wouldn't be very good scratching his bollocks in a meeting at work really...
Oh typo above - should say I "think a hairless man would feel weird now".
