Grrr, why do things have to be so difficult, we have twied 2 different pumps now.
1. One size fits all hand pump vagina pump thing, was way to big.
2. bought a way smaller http://www.noogleberry.com/shop/Vaginal-Pumps/Cups/1-x-Vaginal-Cup/prod_45.html cup for same pump... tried again, and there was still a gap at the bottom where her bum is, so we either have a gab at the top or bottom where it does not touch.
So any advice? anyone had this problem and solved it as I really want to get this working.
tried unfortunatly, Pushed harder and hit her bones, the gap seems too big like i could fit a finger in the gap at top or bottom depending where we place it, and this is the one much smaller.
Hmm, maybe a bit of a drastic idea, but you could possibly try re-shaping it as a last resort before chucking it?
Utterly at your own risk: 'd detatch everything apart from the cup itself, then pop it in the oven on low. Check it constantly until its just flexible enough to bend slightly. Then on the troublesome ends/sides, reshape it a bit. Run under cold water whilst holding the new shape and it should set. This assumes its a thermoplastic, but it most likely is. Obv please be careful, and best to undercook than overcook in this case. You should be able to reprat if at first its not right.
It doesn't say what size the noogleberry cup is, so it's difficult to suggest an alternative. I guess you just need to try and compare sizes and look for a smaller model.
I was worried about this issue too when I bought my OH a pussy pump for Xmas, as she's quite petite down there. I did a search and read through the forum posts on pussy pumps, and also read the reviews of the models LH sell, before settling on the Doc Johnson one, which at 4.2 x 3 inches, seems to be the smallest: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15121
It works absolutely fine for us, just the right size and no problems getting a good seal.
I've got the same pump as 5mil linked to, and it seems to be the right size on me as well.
Are you sure you're using the pump right. Start off by pressing the pump right onto the skin so there's no gaps - once you've pumped once the suction should hold it on all by itself after that.