I adore going down on my OH, I love that fact that she enjoys herself whilst I am doing it. I would not class myself as an expert, so I love it when she gives direction and it always results in her having an orgasm, which is just fantastic to watch. Sometimes we will have sex afterwards, sometimes me going down on her is the fully experience, as mention it is the enjoyment which it brings is its own reward.
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My wife loves oral sex every time we have sex or just some oral play, Problem for her is she cums very very quickly from oral sex so it has to be short bursts with rests between, Sometimes it can literally be seconds so I have to judge when to stop! I can usually tell when she starts squeezing her nipples thatās the time to pause! I love it because it sort of accidentally become edging for her and its great to have that control!!
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My wife and I love it.
I actually love giving it more than receiving (which is convenient because she likes it too). I just love getting in there and getting all wet.
Also itās a sure fire way to get her really going if sheās not feeling 100% horny, a couple of minutes licking and we are good to go!
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Yes @SW2003! Thereās nothing better than coming up with your face covered in your OHās juices!! Love it!!
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Guy here, but I absolutely love going down on my wife! Almost always feast on her deliciousness before I try to penetrate her in any position. Firstly, as women can have more orgasms than men itās a freebie right off the bat. Even if she doesnāt orgasm it will at the very least ensure sheās wet enough to comfortably take the vigorous thrusting that ensues. It also gets me crazy turned on. However turned on I am before, it only multiplies when her legs start to shake and her thighs begin to crush the sides of my head letting me know Iām doing a great job. She doesnāt always cum from my oral but she does most times and it at least gets her more in the mood and desirous of my manhood to do itās thing 
EDIT: Spelling
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I love giving him oral, whether master demandās it from me, or I just help myself, I just canāt get enough of his c**k 
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Absolutely love going down on the wife, though she has had tendency of moving me away after few minutes possibly due to feeling too sensitive down there.
However if I go down on her after penetrating her for while (without me coming) she is super turned on, happy to make her cum and the taste drives me wild - I make sure I kiss her after Iāve been licking her for added effect.
Really want to try her facesitting me but feel she may be bit self conscious - maybe a blindfold on me would help and also feed into my submissive fantasies.
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Weāve not really done oral sex on me much. I love giving it to him but neither of us have ever been overly bothered about oral on me. Recently he has wanted to try but I canāt say I really enjoy it. Partly due to embarrassment and partly because I have a really sensitive clit and if he touches it directly with his tongue it really hurts. I canāt relax because Iām constantly worrying! Any ideas?
If you arenāt that into it there is really no point trying to push yourself to be into it. Focus on enjoying the sex you are having and trying out things that you really want to.
That being said, if you really want explore more, I have a few suggestions.
What about 69? Some people love 69, for others they find it too distracting to be focusing on giving and receiving. Oddly, falling into the second group would help you I think. Focusing on giving him oral will limit how much you can worry not only about being embarrassed but also it sounds like you are expecting it to be too much for you and almost anticipating it. Iām not saying this will magically cure the sensitivity (it wonāt) but if your mind is elsewhere it might help some.
I know your husband is a little reluctant to do much bdsm, but it could be a way to introduce some bondage. He can restrain you with your legs open (maybe with a blindfold for you) and can then do as he pleases, including oral sex. If he knows that oral sex is the aim, it might make him feel more comfortable with being in control (Iām deliberately not using the word dominant here) as you arenāt asking him to do anything that he wouldnāt normally be comfortable with. Itās ānormalā sex, just with a little bit of tie up to help you feel more comfortable with something. You can still focus on channeling your inner sub.
Technique is a big thing here. Most clitorises have a slightly more sensitive side so itās about finding that for you and avoiding it. There is no one specific way so it would be down to trial and error. Obviously experimenting with technique is going to have wait until you feel less embarrassed by the idea (or youāre tied up!). However, to start Iād suggest avoiding the clitoris. Ask him to explore your vulva and opening to your vagina with his tongue, or have him kiss your thighs, lower stomach, even blowing on your clitoris. Basically having his face near to your vulva so you are more used to it.
Barriers could also help a little. Be that dental dams (or cut up condoms or gloves) or even using plenty of lube can help reduce the sensation a bit.
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Thanks @Calie, I feel like I want to at least try, I can give it a few tries and if I really donāt get on with it then I can say Iāve tried and leave it at that.
I might ask him and see what he thinks of this idea, it might work for both of us. Using a blindfold would probably help with the embarasment side of things for me too. Iāll ask him to avoid the clitoris for now, that is a good idea, it would take the worry about sensitivity away for me. I never knew that sensitivity of the clitoris varied like that, it might be worth me exploring that one on my own so that I can explain it to him in the future.
I much prefer the guy giving it spontainiously!
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@Sophie01 I echo your sentiments. My wife loves it in the bedroom but I would also love for the freedom to pull her pants down during a netflix film and start some fun. Similar to how a girl would stereotypically give a guy a random bj. Or if she bends over in the kitchen to get something from one of the lower cabinets, Iād like to pull her pants down and start snacking. Ideally in this fantasy she stays bent over and enjoys wherever I place my tongue and lips or she turns around to give me better access to what Iām looking for. In real life however sheās just more comfortable in the bedroom. Though if we ever went to the store, and if after finding our space in the parking lot she laid the car seat back before getting out of the car, Iād be all over her
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Hi @Kitty-Cat01.
Itās a shame you are not enjoying oral on you but I wondered if youād explained this to your OH. If he was aware of your sensitive clit then he could agree to avoid touching it directly? āYou canāt have good oral sex without trustā as they say.
There are so many other ways he can stimulate you without direct touch, why not get him to lick your labia, suck it. Maybe lick areas around your clit, ether side or your clitoral hood or above. A lot of your clit isnāt actually exposed anyway so youād get a less direct stimulation. Not sure if you masturbate but think about where you would touch and direct him to pleasure those areas. If you like toys inserted or fingers then get him to do this as he licks and encourage him when he gets it right! Iām not an expert and every woman is different so we need guidance. Try a google search for oral sex sensitive clit , you might find some good tips that work for you.
Regarding the embossment issue I wasnāt sure if this was related to your sensitivity or just a general how I look thing. If your partner is keen to do this then Iām sure he thinks your vulva is beautiful, to be honest Iāve never seen a vulva that doesnāt look amazing and one of the reasons I love giving oral so much is that I get to see my wife so closely.
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