Would women on here like it if they could ask for their partner to go down on them whenever they like? what would they prefer, oral sex now and again or a partner that would do it on command? I much prefer giving my wife oral sex if she asks me to as it just feels so much kinkier.
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Please remember to address the whole forum and not single out one group (eg. Women).
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I love oral sex. On command or element of surprise is more than fine with me. Just the thought of it turns me on.
Personally I prefer a man who does as instructed, be it when I tell him to ‘go down’ or go down to the garage and fill my car up with petrol 😀
I love to demand it every now and then , got to have it when am dripping wet !
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I love telling my OH when to do it and he loves it too. We make sure we reverse roles regularly too. Bex
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Said on another thread would love OH to be more dominant and demand it stuff, tie down etc
Both, would love to have him just randomly go down on me and on the same hand would love to just ask him to get down there and get to work 😈
I love oral and wouldn't mind asking for it, but I'd much prefer a partner do it because he wants to rather than it always being because I requested it. I think there's something vety hot about a man actively wanting to perform oral on a woman.
I am 100% with you on this one! Makes you feel so desired 🙂that light bulb moment wrote:
I love oral and wouldn't mind asking for it, but I'd much prefer a partner do it because he wants to rather than it always being because I requested it. I think there's something vety hot about a man actively wanting to perform oral on a woman.
Bex84 wrote:
I am 100% with you on this one! Makes you feel so desired 🙂that light bulb moment wrote:
I love oral and wouldn't mind asking for it, but I'd much prefer a partner do it because he wants to rather than it always being because I requested it. I think there's something vety hot about a man actively wanting to perform oral on a woman.
Exactly, plus it's a shows more I think that the guy geniuely likes doing it, which I think is a big turn on.
My partner has never preformed oral on me! Anyone maybe know why? He hasn’t done anal either as said he doesn’t like the thought of it!
In my previous relationships I didn’t actually enjoy oral because I felt so self conscious. 1 ex in particular loved doing it to me but I just couldn’t relax.
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You would need to ask your partner why he has never performed oral on you. Have you asked him to? If you’ve mentioned that you haven’t enjoyed it with previous partners, maybe he assumed you wouldn’t be that into it with him. Or maybe he is nervous about his skills or just doesn’t like doing it. Could be anything.
Not being into anal isn’t that uncommon either
@calie from memory I don’t think I ever mentioned that too him. I think he is just very old fashioned in his way.
I don’t want to think too much into it incase I then create a, is it me problem. I purchased some true and dare cards to I might get the answer through that 
Maybe just suggest it to him? You say he’s old fashioned so maybe he’s never done it before and needs a bit of guidance? As with most things in a relationship, a bit of open discussion helps.
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Either way as far as I can remember from the small sampling of women I have been with . Some times they told me to get down there and make me cum . Other times , the ones that enjoyed it when I just spread their legs and went to town . Especially after sex for clean up .
I don’t really like it! I think I’m just too self conscious and I don’t like being so exposed. My OH has just started to show an interest in trying to give me oral sex (after 15 years or so!) but I’m just not into it! I love giving it to him though
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I’m the exact same as you 
I think for me it is exactly what you have said too!
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I loveeeee oral when a man goes down I love to watch or be blind folded I would rather have oral to fingers but oral first then slip in a finger or 2 if a guy doesn’t go down on me I worry why he didn’t although I’m clean I worry why they didn’t I don’t like asking for it because I’d hope they would just want to iv been with guys who beg me to let them go down and a few who just didn’t seem into it I found I got more kinkier after they had been down on me
I love to go down on my wife! Also I’m very lucky that she loves sucking dick too. Don’t get it as often as I like but when I too it’s mind blowing