Your post so reminds me of when I found out hubby wasn’t really happy sharing me, he was just sort of doing it for me - I nigh bloody throttled him!
Now I check in with him often - “how do you feel about X?”, “are you happy with Y?”. Even my other partner talks to him occasionally, and he does seem much happier for our combined efforts. Though there again, I’m also happier for having someone who actively tries to get along with him!
Reminds me of how “Ten Shades” was just a stupid post-movie quip made by yours truly, yet any time I’ve used Ten Shades & Me as a blog name, my traffic has soared. So, it’s now our brand
We’re now fully enjoying the swinging lifestyle so we share each other regularly at clubs, parties or private meets.
Neither of the us are ‘showing off’ the other, but rather enjoy seeing the other having sexual fun with multiple people. And seeing the sexual act we usually enjoy together from a different view, e.g watching him licking a woman’s pussy, quite fascinating as well as making me horny
H shares me with other men, and women, while I share him with other women only.
We don’t ever play separately, as it’s about enjoying the fun together. Talking about it afterwards is a turn on all over again
@ApolloSwallow. Sharing my wife with another couple for group fun, is something i’d love to do, but it will remain a fantasy… just not what she would be in to.
We’ve been sharing and swapping our entire relationship. I got him into it and he really enjoyed it and we haven’t looked back. We do some solo play and love sharing the details with each other after. We tend to keep it within our close group of playmates though; rarely pick up new folks (never on our own). But sometimes yes while we are out on an adventure. It’s been such a fun life and so many fun experiences.
It was under the topic of threesome talk in july last year that you said you “had zero interest in sex with another women” so i guess being in the moment can change your mind, i am not judging you in any way just wanted to understand what could have made you change your mind. I understand over time things change but it wasnt too long ago you said it. Did you think you would try it once and discovered you liked it?
No, not an ‘in the moment’ change of mind. Developed from a connection with a woman who I knew enjoyed FF play. It’s not a must for me/us, so if the woman in a couple we’re playing with isn’t into FF play that’s fine. We don’t specifically look for couples where the woman is sexually bi.
Your journey over the last year has been insightful and interesting to read. A testament to good communication and trust in your OH and the people partners you play with. Thank you for sharing @ApolloSwallow
