im curious, how many people like to share their significant other, especially guys? i admit i find it hot to think about, but don’t know why lol. so mfm,mmf, hotwife, stag, atc. for me, i think my wife is super sexy and is great at sex and want to show her off (she has never thought she is sexy and it would be a big confidence booster).
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Not into sharing my wife in those ways so much. Not saying there is anything wrong for others that want to do that. It’s just not an emotional line I’m willing to cross.
I understand the desire, we always want to show off what we are most proud of. Sharing sounds exciting and probably fun in the moment.
I would be more willing to share her through visuals to others in a group where she/we and others are naked, such as on a nude beach or other situations like that where no touching is allowed. Visually, all day long, but nothing more.
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Hi @sexyoldguy64. Not sure if you read my blog, or remember from posts on here, but I’m shared around more than a library book, and so is my husband. It wasn’t something we set out to do, in fact, it wasn’t really on anybody’s radar, wasn’t really planned. But we both enjoy it enormously, and now with the free-use, it has gone to another level. What with that and the other friends we fuck, there is plenty to go around.
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I’m polyamorous with two male partners who enjoy sharing me with one another, who probably would enjoy sharing me more broadly in some limited form if I let them. It’s me who has my limits there though, and because who wouldn’t want to fuck a kinky sex blogger with a global outreach? I don’t want my fun night to be someone else’s scorecard!
I don’t mind sharing either, so long as nobody does what my ex tried to do and dishes it out behind my back.
I think when when we’re proud of someone we want to show them off in some form, and that can look like different things to different people. There’s absolutely no shame in what you want to do, just talk to your wife about it and if you both go ahead with it, agree boundaries and practice wafe sex.
All the best! 
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I’m a big fan of it and have done so with previous partners, but my wife isn’t in to it so it’s just one for the wank bank for me these days.
I have no interest in being cuckolded or humiliated in any way. For me it’s about having an equal power dynamic and enjoying watching a partner’s pleasure, as well as enjoying seeing someone else so aroused by them. Definitely more of a hotwife / stag / vixen type dynamic for me.
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This is my opinion but i think some men need validation for their choice of partner. They think their partner is sexy but need that validation from other men to confirm that. Some will enjoy watching other men just looking at their partners, which i think my hubby likes but some men see their partner as some sort of porn star and want to see them in that situation and want to see men enjoy their partner as much as they do again validation.
My husband would never share me and i would not want to be shared i am not a bag of sweets and i dont need to have sex with other men to get a confidence boost as i am already confident as i believe my husband when he tells me i am sexy and gorgeous, men look at me and thats enough.
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I’m definitely not a sharing sort of person. Though the OH has posted sexy pics of herself on a site similar to this and I have to admit I found it extremely arousing and sexually excitinf knowing others were checking out her naked body 
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I know i would like to post pictures of me in my lingerie (no face) on this forum at some point but i am not sure how my hubby feels about this, if he says no then i wont do it.
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If you can “see” sex as a great feel good game with two or more players and when it’s done it’s finished until you play again then it works…and really well. It’s when emotional attachment occurs and feelings pop in…then things can and do get messy…
You need rules…guidelines and boundaries like a game which need regularly checking and discussion with all parties involved…things do change…and everyone needs to be on board…we’re talking about real people here and when somethings done it can’t be undone…it stays with you forever.
It’s fun but needs to be done the right way…you can’t just jump in…you don’t want lifelong regrets.
Good Luck.
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This.
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@KinkyMira… You guys could make shagging an Olympic event… all credit to you.
Your phrase “ free-use” brought to mind a porn site I stumbled upon .” Free use “
Like most red blooded types, being the individual who is the “ free to use” sounds awesome
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@Wood-Nymph I think i can safely say, if your hubby agreed to you posting, we would look forward to it immensely.
The forum members are very supportive and complimentary to those who share their images.
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Not sure hubby would like other people looking at my pictures though. As it is anonymous and there would be no face he just might, we will have to see. 
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All down to taste and if it’s something she genuinely would like to try without feeling pressured to do so for pleasing your imagination 
has she openly spoken to you about it before when you’ve mentioned it?
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I could never do that, the time I was seeing someone unofficially, she slept with someone and I remember I got so jealous and hurt and at that point it was more like fwb, so I couldn’t imagine me liking it when I’m in a full loving relationship.
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We fantasise about sharing with another couple. It turns us both on enormously. BUT, we would never actually do it! We both know that we are the sort of people who are only for each other, and nobody else.
That’s not to say it’s wrong, if it suits all people involved, great, go for it!
By the way, we read @KinkyMira ‘s blog to each other and think it’s brilliant 
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We dont even fantasize about it, its all about just us when having a session.
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Oh lovely, thanks for reading.
We never set out to shag other people. It just sort of happened.
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I think that’s the best way, if it just happens, it must have felt right for all. Time to stop if it doesn’t feel right
Please keep blogging, it works wonders for us!
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I share my OH with my girlfriend on the condition i peg him during it.
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