Dear lovehoney community,
I feel a little out of my depth on this one,
Please help me decide between these two products.
Lovehoney Bionic Bullet Rabbit Vibrating Cock Ring
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22186
I'm worried the rabbit ears might be uncomfortable for her or not line up properly with her clitoris, are my fears unfounded? Also, (please forgive the amateur question) Are these rabbit eyes solely for external stimulation because we both agree those are the only toys we're willing to consider at the moment.
Lovehoney Bionic Bullet Vibrating Cock Ring
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22187
The reviews for this product are very good but it doesn't seem to be as focused on pleasure for the lady; which is the main reason for the purchase. this seems like the safer option for me in case the rabbit ears don't line up.
Background,
I'm eager to find something to increase pleasure for my darling Wife.
Neither of us have used sex toys before and this will be our first one together so it's important for it to be a couples toy which we can use whilst making love.
Also open to other recommendations.
Thank You for reading, I look forward to your replies and insight.
Out of those two I'd play it safe and go for the non rabbit Bionic Bullet. You are quite correct that there is a chance the rabbit ears won't line up correctly with her clit, it's actually a risk with all cock rings but with the height of those ears it's more risky. It's easier to grind down on a flat cock ring that get one of those extended bits to actually sit correctly on your clit.
The great thing about the Bionic Bullet range is that if it doesn't hit the right spot, you can remove the bullet from the cock ring and hold it in the correct place with your hands. You can still wear the cock ring minus the bullet to get the effect from that too. So honestly you're safe enough with either of them!
Any cock ring that vibrates has been designed with female pleasure in mind so I wouldn't worry from that point of view :)
Thank You for the speedy reply,
We'd like to hear your other recommedations and advice.
Go for the bullet one its hard to get the rabbit ears either side when there a lot of thrusting going on xx
This is another good one in the same price range:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28323
My partner found that one a lot more comfortable to wear because of the flat edges (as opposed to the rounded ones most other rings have). He found it didn't dig in at all which was refreshing for him. It's great for clitoral stimulation as well because the raised bumper is so pronounced and the vibrations travel well along it (and the shaft of the penis incidentally) that it's easy to get good, stimulating contact with it. Of course it doesn't have a ball ring, which the two above do.
This one is a tad more expensive:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31172
But has the bonus of being rechargeable, meaning it's both a little more powerful and a little more quiet than the battery powered rings. Plus obviously no batteries! The cock and ball rings are the other way round to the Bionic Bullet ones in that the beaded ring goes around your balls and the smooth ring goes around the shaft, my partner prefered this as apparently the beaded ring just feels nicer around the balls while the smooth ring is better at holding the ring in place. Having more power obviously means it feels a bit better on the clit as even if you can't get a good solid contact with it it provides more stimulation. It is also available in a non rechargeable version but it's basically the same as the Bionic Bullet one except for the fact that the rings are the other way round:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20525
There are loads of great clitoral vibrators out there that work great during sex as well, even supposed insertable vibrators can work well as external vibrators during intercourse, if a cock ring doesn't work out for you or you're not sure you'll find one that suits both of you there are still plenty of other products to choose from :)
Thanks for your input, I think I'll invest a little more and opt for the Tracey Cox Supersex USB Rechargeable Love Ring,
You said more power more pleasure for her and sounds good to me. I also like that it's removeable and can be used when we're trying out other positions.
Something about them calling it a Love Ring as opposed to a Cock Ring also appeals to my sensibilities.