Very good I’d say blowjobs she loved to please and amazing at it
Theres masturbation for sure, but I see that as separate from my sex life. Thats my initial interpretation anyway, I’m a very literal thinker!
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Definitely a 10, always enjoying different things im into and changing things up and locations keep it adventurous and fun too.
Funny you should mention locations, I was in the middle of recounting a very scary thing I did when I used to live in the US, on the BART in CA, but it was getting a bit to long to continue…
Been together for over 20 years, but definitely a 9/10. It has always been pretty good for us, but when lockdown happened we took the opportunity to download Kindu, open up the conversation and try new things. The only reason I give it 9 and not 10 is because it’s not quite as regular as I would like sometimes, but not far off.
Still incredibly turned on by my OH, her body has become even more impressive after she gave birth and fed our children. 
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I’m going to rate us a 9/10. The quality and frequency of our sexy time is better than ever. As is our adventurous spirit and communication about our fantasies and such.
However, being working class folks in our late 40’s can pose some challenges. Work stuff, sometimes things hurt, family stuff, etc. can dampen the mood.
Just cuddling and reminding each other we want to (just not tonight) has to suffice occasionally.
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Umm 2/3 for me as it’s practically nonexistent nor adventurous 
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0 no sex for me, 5 months and counting
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I’d guess 9 or 10? Kind of hard to do comparisons, especially with no history before my current relationships.
I am disappointed to read that quite a few people on here are scoring their sex life as zero or just a couple out of ten because they aren’t getting two-way sex at the moment.
I know there is no substitution for being with someone else, but a good wank is the next best thing, and although we are brought up to think masturbation is an admission of failure, it’s actually a great way to love yourself and treat yourself. And why not?
Nobody should be on zero as long as they have the use of their hands and sex toys.
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I’m sorry my 0 adds to your disappointment lol still a 0 though and its not a negative for me, its a choice.
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I have mentioned to my wife that it would be great if I could get 10% of the time her smart phone gets . I would impede on the dogs time , but he needs more time too .
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Just hit 40… and hoping the same now happens
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Me too @JoCat
Sex life or when did you last have sex to me is having actual sex with someone else…not foreplay…oral or joint / solo masturbation that’s a different category…
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Welcome back
All I say is talk openly and honestly to your partner and don’t taboo anything 
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I’d rate the quality a solid 9 only point off is because she won’t let me come in her mouth lol. But her actual boobs and pussy are amazing. The frequency and being up for new things I would rate as a 5 because it’s me who normally starts it and comes up with new stuff to try .
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I’m not sure that there is a fixed rating. It depends on a number of factors, especially as we get a bit older. There are times when it’s a 10/10, both in quality and quantity. Other times however it’s not so good, not a chore, but needing more work. Our bodies and minds are not always consistent and both of us have factors that affect mood and performance. Talking things through always improves the situation and I’m pleased to say that Mrs E and I are in a high point for the past couple of months. Quality and quantity is good. Holidays help 
Sex life is 10/10 recently, myself and my OH cannot get enough of it recently lol we just absolutely love having sex with each other. It has also brought us even closer together
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Right now 0
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Sex itself probably an 8
But mutual masturbation definitely a 10
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