Hello
I can’t really believe that I have never posted here before, I am not even a member. Half of my bedside cabinet comes from Lovehoney and I read this forum a lot.
I need some advice from the collective and I thought I would post with a polite request for some thoughts about how to navigate this weekend. It has also meant that I can now answer a few other threads which I will enjoy doing all day probably.
So, I am Emily, late twenties, married to Charlie, and we both live in Devon now and have a lovely life here. We have been together since freshers week at university and apart from one or two little indiscretions on holidays with the girls it has just been him and me all that time. Before him, I had a couple of non serious boyfriends in the 6th form but really didn’t experience an awful lot.
Whilst we have never really done anything too kinky, except for perhaps a bit of toplessness when his friends have stayed over, we have various friends who have tried things we have been curious about but not quite ever had the … not sure … courage, opportunity, Prosecco?
One thing I have been curious about is a really big cock and Charlie knows this and we sometimes have talked about it.
You can see where this is heading.
Last Summer we went to a garden party with friends and it ended up being a fairly drunken, skinny dipping, flirty fun evening once the sun went down. Nice big house with pool overlooking Salcombe, for those of you know who the area.
One guy there had this absolutely massive cock, I had never seen anything like it and could not stop looking at it. I found myself by accident talking to him and was just like a simpering school girl near him, I even complemented him on it. Inevitably the champagne, nudity, and flirting had an effect and he became erect as we talked, it was fine, it was dark enough and people were in and out of the pool all the time and there were various cocks in various states of erection so no one noticed.
I have not been able to stop thinking about it since, it was like an extra limb, and he was so confident about it and nonchalant when chatting despite this enormous weapon pointing at me and touching my tummy occasionally.
Charlie and I have talked a bit about it afterwards and for a few days but I kept thinking about it and eventually asked a friend who I knows him. It turns out that he is single and has something of a reputation with married women. I was put in touch with a married girl who was also at the party and we had a discrete chat. It transpires that the chap in question, Ciaran, has been known to be the ‘third party’ in threesomes and so on when couples have wanted to experiment a little.
So, over a few months one thing led to another and Charlie has agreed that I can tick of my massive cock curiosity with Ciaran and it is happening tomorrow. Charlie won’t be present, so it won’t be like a threesome, but it will happen in our house after lunch. Ciaran knows what is planned, obviously.
We are pretty much all set. Incredibly nervous though, especially me. Charlie is being incredibly … not sure … supportive, understanding, accommodating, lovely, probably of those things but he knows it is a big step not just for me but also for our marriage. We’ve been talking about it for months though and he is 100% about it.
So, please … thoughts, ideas, suggestions, reassurance, hints, whatever you can provide would be a great help. I know what I will be wearing for lunch, what we are cooking, and where will go afterwards, but if you can help at all in any way please do.
Wow, that was a hefty one for my first post, but it is a hefty topic.
Thank you all.
Kisses, Emily.
Hopefully theres no pain, make sure you’re fully ready before penetration, have some lube on hand just incase.