Hey Brenna! I’m so excited to help out with your article 
Honestly, for me receiving anal feels incredible - it’s that perfect deep stretch that doesn’t really compare to anything else. It leaves me totally relaxed and I enjoy so much the prep that goes into it; all the foreplay and warm-up make me feel really taken care of, and it’s even more amazing because my partner and I are both very into butt play and anal. He helps me ease into it, and it feels like a little dance where we’re both tuned in to each other, more so than with other types of sex because of the care and attention that anal sex requires.
My first experiences were okay, but they’re so much better now! My ex partner wasn’t as into it, so it felt a bit off. But now, with someone who loves it as much as I do, the whole experience has leveled up. Having that compatibility just makes everything flow, and it has seriously boosted how much I enjoy it.
Discovering how much I love anal sex has genuinely been a journey into who I am and what brings me pleasure and intimacy. It’s not just about the physical sensation; it’s also a release from all those limitations and judgments that society often imposes on us. The process of self-acceptance helped me shed some taboos and feel more free to embrace what makes me feel good, without worrying about what others might think of me. I feel empowered to explore, express, and just be who I am.