Recomendations for 'Softer' Dildo!?

I recently purchased my first suction cup dildo - The LoveHoney Real deal Realistic 9-inch dildo https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27805

The size and shape are perfect, (although a bit more girth would be nice!) but not the 'feel'. I found it just too rigid and hard, so much so that the glans/corona kind of 'scraped' my internal muscles, which, admittedly, do tend squeeze insertables quite tightly

I love the hardness of glass and metal dildo's btw - but fancied an actual 'cock shaped' dildo. The shaping of this dildo made the hardness around the glans very uncomfortable until I was very very relaxed then the feeling got better. I found this dildo great to use as a hand-held dildo, being disabled made the suction cup idea ok, but my balance and coordination are too poor for many positions, but the suction cup made for great shaping for something to easily hold onto though!

So.... any recommendations for a stiff, yet not too hard 'cock shaped' dildo?

This is a bit of a problem for us too. We have a couple of very realistic silicone dildos, the shape is a great and they feel lovely but they are also a little bit hard and can be uncomfortable is used for too long.

Cutecountrygirl wrote:

This is a bit of a problem for us too. We have a couple of very realistic silicone dildos, the shape is a great and they feel lovely but they are also a little bit hard and can be uncomfortable is used for too long.

Glad I'm not the only one, CC! Reading through the reviews for this one, and not seeing anyone else complain about the same thing made me think I was 'deformed' inside lol!

I have this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33670 and it is certainly sifter but with a firm core. Might not be girthy enough (I know I would like a little more) and pricey but does feel amazing, maybe something from the range?

AmyA wrote:

I have this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33670 and it is certainly sifter but with a firm core. Might not be girthy enough (I know I would like a little more) and pricey but does feel amazYing, maybe something from the range?

Yes! That looks to be exactly what i mean, Thank you, Amy! A little to pricey for right now - but deffo a wish list addition (got a birthday in february... might get MrSpider to treat me to this!)

I've seen those soft "packer" penises, it's a shame they don't make something similar but suitable for penetration. When my OH fucks me, he is obviously hard but nowhere near as hard as a dildo, his head is much softer and the whole thing has more flex etc. I'd love a dildo like that.

Cutecountrygirl wrote:

I've seen those soft "packer" penises, it's a shame they don't make something similar but suitable for penetration. When my OH fucks me, he is obviously hard but nowhere near as hard as a dildo, his head is much softer and the whole thing has more flex etc. I'd love a dildo like that.

Me too!

I have the same one and have exactly the same problem with it..it's not even used any more. It's got worse as I've got older 🙈

I was going to suggest the Mustang, too - or one of his Vixskin brothers in a larger size - but I see AmyA has beaten me to it! It has a lovely firm core but a squishy outer and it is brilliant and always comfortable. It's only downside is that it has probably ruined me for firmer and cheaper silicone hahaha 😂

Initially I baulked at the cost, and it is a big outlay, but if mine got lost or damaged or whatever I would absolutely, definitely save up to buy a replacement.

I've actually been writing a review of mine this morning, so its virtues are fresh in my mind right now. 😁

I'd highly reccomend the Fleshjack dildos, I have this one (although there are others on the site too):

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33705

and it's amazing, it's got the same spongey feel as a real erect penis and the head is softer than the shaft so it doesn't do that horrible internal scraping thing (hate dildos that do that! *shudders*). It's got a great balance between being soft and realistic yet still firm enough to insert. Warm it up and it feels SO realistic. You don't get much more realistic appearance wise either, the amount of detail they've captured makes it a work of art as much as a sex toy haha!

OK I am now making a habit of reiterating others, but I want to second the Fleshjack dildos! I have two and they are soooo much better and softer than any other single-density silicone I've found. Fleshjack was my go-to before I tried Vixskin, and is still a very favourite.

I sometimes crave a really soft dildo too, something a little ‘bendy’ even! My cervix is quite sensitive so I need to be careful what I use. Glass is great on my g spot but I daren’t thrust too hard with it or push it in too deep, or it just ends up being painful.

I bought this recently, I’ve not used it yet but I’ll let you know if it’s any good! It’s quite small though:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28408

Lovebirds_x wrote:

I'd highly reccomend the Fleshjack dildos, I have this one (although there are others on the site too):

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33705

and it's amazing, it's got the same spongey feel as a real erect penis and the head is softer than the shaft so it doesn't do that horrible internal scraping thing (hate dildos that do that! *shudders*). It's got a great balance between being soft and realistic yet still firm enough to insert. Warm it up and it feels SO realistic. You don't get much more realistic appearance wise either, the amount of detail they've captured makes it a work of art as much as a sex toy haha!

Damn you and Covered in Bees, Brent Everett's beautiful cock is now on its way to me. This is why it's a bad idea to be online whilst drinking wine and horny!

Oops, sorry AmyA! Hopefully you won't regret it for a moment, though! 😁

Thank you everyone for your replies and suggestions.... some more to add to my wish-lists!

I have this one:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28882

and it has a lovely soft squish to it on the outside, but also slightly firmer in the middle. It is a little expensive, but it is really worth it for the quality and feel. Also it has no odour at as it is completely made from silicone :) xx

Also have to agree with everyone who said the flesh jack boys series and vixskin, both are great for a firm dildo but still soft for a very realistic feel. I’m still shocked they haven’t made a few real skin dildos with popular Male porn stars aimed at females, pretty sure half of the people I know would rush for a James deen dildo!

It's out of stock at the moment, but what about this one? It's firm but has soft skin and a squishy head. The suction cup on it is great too. 

Otherwise, here are a few other lifelike, soft-yet-rigid dildos we sell: 

Combine this with this for a super-lifelike suction cup dildo. 

Rigid, textured, realistic and real-feel: The D

Vixen Outlaw is super lifelike and long, but no suction cup. 

King Cock Dual Density - thick, lifelike, squishy yet firm, suction cup. 

AmyA wrote:

Lovebirds_x wrote:

I'd highly reccomend the Fleshjack dildos, I have this one (although there are others on the site too):

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33705

and it's amazing, it's got the same spongey feel as a real erect penis and the head is softer than the shaft so it doesn't do that horrible internal scraping thing (hate dildos that do that! *shudders*). It's got a great balance between being soft and realistic yet still firm enough to insert. Warm it up and it feels SO realistic. You don't get much more realistic appearance wise either, the amount of detail they've captured makes it a work of art as much as a sex toy haha!

Damn you and Covered in Bees, Brent Everett's beautiful cock is now on its way to me. This is why it's a bad idea to be online whilst drinking wine and horny!

Yay, hope you love it! :D

LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:

... I’m still shocked they haven’t made a few real skin dildos with popular Male porn stars aimed at females, pretty sure half of the people I know would rush for a James deen dildo!

But Doc Johnson makes James Deen dildos, one even in silicone! Epiphora didn't like it, though...

I add my vote to the Vixen dual-density line if anybody is looking for a realistic, squishy dildo. I have the Johnny. Which I hardly ever use, because I find it boring - not enough pressure on my G-Spot, no interesting texture... I prefer an unrealistic, interesting dildo!