I cannot remember the last time I reached solo orgasm without watching porn at the same time.
I can orgasm through sex or foreplay without thinking about or watching porn (as long as it's good!) but I have become heavily reliant on porn when masturbating. I have never been able to easily achieve orgasm and have only managed to cum through fingering myself a few times. I LOVE my rabbit vibrator but I just can't orgasm unless I'm watching porn.
I used to be able to get off solely using my imagination or some erotic fiction and I have tried doing it recently but have given up after being at it for way too long and getting bored (45 minutes!) and just finishing myself off quickly with porn.
It's been going on for a couple of years now and now that I no longer have a boyfriend and a the promise of regular sex I'm masturbating more often... therefore watching more porn!
Any tips on how to wean myself off the porn? I don't want to be so reliant on it anymore! Thanks x
As to having a mental image, you could try thinking about one of your friends you like to have a twinkly with. tend to find it better then porn, like one lady sit beside me one time at school years ago and she playing with her shoe with her bare feet!
Even one best one was the opening evening for the "Specials" where this lovely "district Officer" we are is a small room she did lean over to get others some applications, and she had the nices ass I ever seen! long cheeks & nice curve to them! she had brown short curly hair done in a small bun, nice brown eyes, she does have some lines showing but thats better to me! she could at least 20years older than me but I don't care she nice! just let you mind go wild!!
I heard a warm bath is one of the best places to have sex, so try a waterproof rabbit! as my mate had sex with the girlfriend, and she sunk her teeth into his arm and which gave her a big explosive orgasm!
Or try sitting in a chair on the edge of the bed, lay on your back and pull you legs back near your chest, and use a rabbit to try and find the G-spot, once you found it, close your eyes thinking of a nice bloke you know, and think of him slipping his penis into your hole and think of him pushing your legs back for more leaverage and slow rub you G-spot and work up!
Good news! I haven't had internet for the past few weeks and only just got it back today. So I haven't been able to watch porn! I've managed to reach orgasm through masturbation, sometimes I've had to imagine porn scenes but a couple of times I've been able to purely on the thought of things being done to me.
Also, never used my rabbit in different positions before... best thing EVER!!
Very, very happy!!! Thanks for the advice everyone. Hopefully I've been able to break this porn curse for good :)
i masturbate for hours every day and always use porn
Hours? How many hours? and what porn do you watch?
it varies but usually about 8 hours a day. I go through all the YouPorn, XTube etc videos and also have a large magazine collection which I am always adding to
I have the best orgasms when i fantasize too.. all about the imagination..for me it does beat watching porn and i rarely use toys to orgasm.. i have had a vibe for 5 months and used it probably twice. I do like to watch porn occasionally but i dont want to lose my imagination by relying on solely porn. So i tend to masturbate/orgasm 90% of the time withouth porn. But hey, each to their own.. whatever works for you , there is no right or wrong!
Wow.