Girls, what's your view on being rimmed? I love giving it, seems natural progression from lots of clit attention. Makes me very hard. Your views? X
Not for me personally. Makes me feel a bit gross and definitely not turned on. Tisn't part of my natural progression unless anal penetration is on the cards, and even then I'd see more sense in a well lubed finger! My partner expresses pleasure from giving it though, so you're not alone :)
You should also be wary of closing posts off by asking one group of people, guys like being rimmed too! :p
I actually quite like it. It's one of the few things that I get a bit shy about - I'm not quite sure why. Maybe it's because no one would ever expect it of me, and I'd never admit it in a non-anonymous setting. I think it's also the word 'rimming' sounds so horrible. I think there needs to be a new, sexier word for it!
But yeah, I'd never really heard anything about it or considered potentially liking it until trying it in a heat-of-the-moment kind of scenario, and it's just something that I find pleasurable. I much prefer it to any sort of anal penetration because it's more sensitive to receive oral there instead for me.
Skitty wrote:
I actually quite like it. It's one of the few things that I get a bit shy about - I'm not quite sure why. Maybe it's because no one would ever expect it of me, and I'd never admit it in a non-anonymous setting. I think it's also the word 'rimming' sounds so horrible. I think there needs to be a new, sexier word for it!
But yeah, I'd never really heard anything about it or considered potentially liking it until trying it in a heat-of-the-moment kind of scenario, and it's just something that I find pleasurable. I much prefer it to any sort of anal penetration because it's more sensitive to receive oral there instead for me.
Same thoughts here, i find it a pleasurable experience and much prefer it to anal itself. I get nervous and it makes me feel 'dirty' i suppose so i think that adds to the kink. As swingers however, I only allow the hubby to do it as again nerves kick in. Strange as i know i'm perfectly clean etc, it is just that little bit more intimate.
I very recently discovered if I'm turned on enough I can orgasm from it!
I never thought I'd be up for it but one day he just did it and I've never regretted it. It's much better than you think it is, personally I ws put of psychologically but when you start you can really get into it, it's just like anal once you get over the psychological barrier everything just gets better and better! x
Luv it! Giving and receiving! Prefer giving to girls however, it's even more pleasurable to receive when I know that full anal penetration is gonna follow.
Lovebirds_x wrote:
Not for me personally. Makes me feel a bit gross and definitely not turned on. Tisn't part of my natural progression unless anal penetration is on the cards, and even then I'd see more sense in a well lubed finger! My partner expresses pleasure from giving it though, so you're not alone :)
You should also be wary of closing posts off by asking one group of people, guys like being rimmed too! :p
Agreed! I must admit I'd love to be rimmed myself but I can't imagine the OH being up for that. :( she has occasionally run a finger over there and it drives me wild lol
I used to get it from the missus while she gave me a handjob at the same time. Felt amazing.
I'd love to give it to her as well. Maybe I'll just go for it the next time I'm down there... hmm.
Some of the lesbian porn where one girl is being rimmed by another is really, really hot.
Eager-2-Please wrote:
Some of the lesbian porn where one girl is being rimmed by another is really, really hot.
+1 Agreed ^_^
I like it, quite a lot in fact. I'm not a pro at giving because I've never been asked and probably wouldn't be brave enough to just try it, but I'm certainly not against doing it x
Love it. If you've got a whole body's worth of places that make you feel good when they're being kissed/licked/touched etc. it seems silly to miss bits out.
Love giving and receiving.
Needless to say it must be very clean and hair-free though.
Me and my partner tryied this once and we both agreed nether of us wanted to try it again.
I absolutely love it. My partner often heads there first before he even thinks about heading anywhere else with his tongue as he knows how much it turns me on and really gets me going!
My wife wouldn't admit it but she likes a bit tongue or finger there I'm happy to oblige, I'm more than happy to be rimmed but then I do like my butt plugs You can't beat this advice from SusanQuilliam
"My ultimate sex tip is a little trick called the Venus Butterfly move - no, not http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22172 (though that works wonderfully), but a no-holds-barred fingers and tongue assault on 'her' pleasure places.
Try with thumbs on her clitoris, first two fingers in her vagina, remaining fingers in her anus… or mouthwork on her clit with fingers in her G spot while the other hand is in her rectum. But actually, any combincation of fingers, tongue, vibrator, butt plug… the crucial thing is to make sure she gets continuous stimulatin of vagina, clitoris and anus all at the same time."
Quiet ones are worse! wrote:
My wife wouldn't admit it but she likes a bit tongue or finger there I'm happy to oblige, I'm more than happy to be rimmed but then I do like my butt plugs You can't beat this advice from SusanQuilliam
"My ultimate sex tip is a little trick called the Venus Butterfly move - no, not http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22172 (though that works wonderfully), but a no-holds-barred fingers and tongue assault on 'her' pleasure places.
Try with thumbs on her clitoris, first two fingers in her vagina, remaining fingers in her anus… or mouthwork on her clit with fingers in her G spot while the other hand is in her rectum. But actually, any combincation of fingers, tongue, vibrator, butt plug… the crucial thing is to make sure she gets continuous stimulatin of vagina, clitoris and anus all at the same time."
I shall be telling my partner about this ;) thanks in advance!
Love hubby rimming me and love doing it to him !
It just seems like a natural progression. Back massage to kissing and licking, to repeating the same further down. I love it. It's probably a bit cringey, but I love every single part of my wife's body. All her tastes and scents. I'd eat her if it weren't for the legal and moral problems. :p
Both me and my partner enjoy giving and receiving this. In trms of receiving it took me quite a while to allow him to try it and I'll only let him knowing I have just got out of the shower/bath, but I do find it a pleasurable experience. It's perfect for a bit of anal play as it means you don't have to stop to apply lube. It also really turns my partner on.
As for giving it. It's not my favourite activity, but I'm happy to do it as I know he really enjoys it. It can be a good distraction when I think he is about to cum and I want him to hold off a little longer.
I have never had a bad experience and he has never complained so anyone who is scared to try should maybe try it first in the shower so they know they are clean. That being said I'm not sure how open to it I would be in a new relationship. I had been with my parter a good year before I finally gave in one night!
I love giving, would love OH to do it but I know he doesn't like that kinda thing. It's obviously best straight out the shower but sometimes a quick wash and some flavoured lube will do. OH never acts fussed about it but little OH sure wakes up!