Lately I have been finding myself having more and more conversations around the roles of a cuck, the differences of cucks and most importantly the importance of cucks in play. Like many aspects of BDSM, fetish and kink, cuckolding has a certain stereotype that can put many off. To the untrained mind cuckold is simple; watch your hot partner get fucked and pleasured by a partner that is not yourself. You have no involvement other than that of watching and possibly, if it’s your thing and they consent, cleaning up after. A lot of time I have the discussions with guys that go along the line ‘I would love to watch you get fucked but I’m not one of those weak cucks’ or ‘I feel so dirty, I just want to watch her pleasured in ways I cannot do but my emotions would take over,’. Let’s be fair society tells us matrimony should be monogamous but yet we all yearn over the forbidden so really who is it benefitting? Again, most of the stigma of a cuck comes from the lack of awareness of the different levels and roles of a cuck. Nearly every male I talk to whether interested or not in cuckold thinks that the cuck has to be a weak submissive who loves to be humiliated and made to feel inferior in their relationship or life. Which for me is a very ignorant view, yes there are those slave cucks who get their sexual kicks from being used and made to feel as such but the strength of the mind they have to have to fully submit to their desires and fight through the processing of their emotions and humiliation whilst putting their own feelings and desires on the back burner in order to please and follow the rhythm of the play shows a strength beyond comprehension. Of course, I am biased these are the cuckolds I know and love more, especially when it comes to cum play but we aren’t here for that…
Did you know you could actually be a dominant cuckold? Yes, It is actually a thing! Think of all the fantasises you have that involve watching someone getting fucked, do you find yourself sat there playing out the scene and what you would want to happen, what toys they would use, would there be restraints? A dominant cuck is exactly as it sounds, you dictate the play and how they fuck, even down to position and release! My experience with dominant cucks are pretty intense but very, very fun. I like the fact I have to do nothing but I get 100% of the sexual pleasure. I had a dom cuck quite recently who physically put me in the restraints whilst running their hands over my body positioning my body into places, I didn’t know I could stretch too. I could see the lust, excitement and desire flashing in his eyes as he picked out the toys, he wanted used on me even going as far as to show my sexual partner how he wanted me penetrated with the them, the strokes and rhythm. If I wasn’t kissed how he liked he would show how tender or rough he wanted me kissed, how to stroke and spank my ass. I felt like the princess in his play though I was his mere fuck doll, the intensity of the play and the attention to all the small details that may have been missed had he not been there dictating, led to one of the biggest orgasms I have experienced in years and the fact he counted down for us all to release at his instruction made it damn near impossible not to make a mess. These guys want FULL control of everyone and everything that is involved in the experience, there is nothing weak about these cucks, you literally are their play thing for their entertainment and pleasure. Of course, this role can be flipped and it’s our dominant cuck queens calling the shots watching her partner pleasure and be pleasured too.
The starting point for most cuckold situations tends to be the modern cuck scenario. A good old-fashioned threesome. Remember they always used to say a threesome ruined relationship because only one person was getting something from it, well perhaps there is some truth in that but it’s definitely not the ruining part. A threesome is usually the start point to a cuckold experience especially the MMF, watching as your partner is satisfied and climaxing because of another male seems to unpick at the seams of what society indoctrinates into us from an early age. I find a threesome liberates the female of the couple, finding this new sense of sexuality and sexual being that may have been supressed for quite some time, she becomes more open to possible future situations, maybe even suggestive. I have found many women use this as a stepping stone to further their sexual desires, they will take charge of the situation and lead their partner into roles he’s dared spoken of yet. Sex clubs tend to be next on the agenda, the lady wanting and receiving more attention than she has ever desired as her partner becomes enthralled by the lust and desire other men are showing her. The more encounters they have I truly believe the more the cuck will surface, emotions will play a part here to as it’s not quite established the roles or processed the feelings. This is where boundaries are made and pushed, desires are aroused and surpassed. It is the perfect time for each partner to discuss expectation and fears being mindful of the fragility and newness of the situation you have found yourself in. The importance and role of the cuck here is to let the other lead but still communicate your wants, it’s so new you could try every single angle of it to find what you want but if you already know it then give the lead time to find what they want, get lost in the excitement of them, we all know once we get a taste of the nectar of this scene, we want to drink it forever.
Perhaps it may lead to a hot wife scenario, she’s not ready to have you fully in the room or you may not be able to process the emotions that come with it just yet, though you enjoy it your just not ready to experience it again. However, if you and your partner have been toying with the idea of a threesome, this is potentially a great place to start for confidence and evaluating emotions before the main event. Especially as this is where you can make some rules for instance, no kissing, no CIM or OWO, it may be no penetration. Whilst she’s out with bulls and such like it’s a great time for the cuck, you can fantasise about her out, knowing what she’s wearing, receiving texts and pictures of her whilst she’s out. If things go further that radio silence whilst she’s in the middle of it will test your mental strength, test your urges. Being turned on knowing that right at the very moment someone is fucking her hard, she may even ring you so you can hear it all, what a tease! As a good cuck it is your duty to clean her when she returns, lie her on the sofa and lick her as she tells you all the things he did to her, teasing you with how big he is. Making you smell her and taste her underwear as she relives the moment, your only allowed to release on her say so. Building the excitement for when she finally agrees to allow you in the room with her and whoever of her choosing. Cucks to hot wives know just how lucky they are to have a woman who is lusted after, who is liberated enough to get what she wants and deserves and it is the duty of the cuck to share her because it would be a shame for all her sexual being to go to waste when it’s even more fun to watch it spray around.
All of these roles can go hand in hand with humiliation but they don’t have to be specifically about humiliation. Of course, if you want to be a sissy bitch whose partner humiliates them whilst she’s being fucked by a big dick then that’s ok, there should be no shame around kink or fetish. Maybe your wife wants to humiliate you by you watching her being bred by a BBC who you would have no chance in comparing next to, society would also see you as weak and you would permanently be in an inferior role to her. As most kinks and fetishes, I find these scenarios are more the long-term goals, once we begin on the path of our fantasises, we always find ourselves looking to push them and make them more and more out of our depth. A world opens up to us that we were never aware of, we are never the same once we get a taste. If this is your fantasy or goal now and you have never cuckolded before then I strongly suggest you remember, it’s a marathon not a race. Starting out the blocks too soon could lead to you getting hurt and not fully committing to something that will eventually fulfil you. I would hate for you to miss out on a life that is clearly your calling.
I would love to hear others experiences with cuckolding and the role you play or would like to play.
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