I am using the term Trans Male or FTM only for familiarity. My partner does not use either term. His pro nouns are He/Him.
My partner before the transition was petite and he is an even more tiny Male. This poses some adjustmentswhen it comes to rope play. Lately we have been a little perplexed about what ties work for them now.
We’ve tried some of the traditional harness style for me that just don’t seem to work for him in how they look. Since I’m not a traditional schooled rigger I’m used to experiementing and finding something I’m comfortable with doing and he always liked when he was a Woman.
So, now I’m trying to find some specific ties that work for smaller bodies and not confining it to Male only.
Not sure I understand. You say your partner “is an even more tiny male.” Are you meaning they are actually smaller physically than pre-transitioning or do you mean they are seem smaller compared to sis males? Again if as you say you used things “he always liked when he was a woman” then why wouldn’t they still work now?
He is actually smaller as a Male. And the ties that he liked were more suited to a Woman with brests. And ties just feel different now. Kind of a tactile thing.
