Hi, I'm a lesbian. My lovely girlfriend has asked for rougher sex, but I honestly have no idea how to go about it. She isn't so open to anal play and prefers to not use toys, so can you lovlies please give me some ideas?
I already frequently bite and spank her, deny orgasms and tug at her hair. But... I'm pretty clueless to what other options I have.
Thank you!
lovelylu wrote:
Hi, I'm a lesbian. My lovely girlfriend has asked for rougher sex, but I honestly have no idea how to go about it. She isn't so open to anal play and prefers to not use toys, so can you lovlies please give me some ideas?
I already frequently bite and spank her, deny orgasms and tug at her hair. But... I'm pretty clueless to what other options I have.
Thank you!
Hi lovelylu. Something my wife and I have got into as we would like her to squirt is manual stimulation. This is done with a nice massage she lies on her back on the bed with me stood along side her. Then lube her up put your two middle finger in her and do the come hither motion along the roof of her vagina. Start slowly then put the Palm of your other hand on top of her pupic bone and push down firmly whilst using you thumb or first finger on her clit. Then as she gets turned on an warmed up the hand on the pubic keeping pressure down draw it toward her belly button so you find the edge of her public bone keep pressing down. This will also have the effect of making the clit more pronounced and drag the g spot closer to the vaginal entrance. You should find that the roof of the vaginal has swollen as she becomes more aroused this may take 10 minutes or more. Once she is well aroused . You can now get rough or hard and fast. Change the come hither inside her up and down with you fingers flat inside so hard up against the roof then hard down against the floor of her vagina( I love the wonderfully squelchy sexy sound this makes). All the time pushing down on her public bone. One last thing she might l also is rough is the occasional pulling out fast in the come hither stage. Don't be afraid to be hard baby's come out of the vagina it is quite tough. Just make sure you nails are short and you use the pads of your fingers. Hope this helps. Good luck.