I always play with my clit with my fingers or a toy during sex or he does. Alot of women need clit stimulation in order to orgasm. My husband loves it when i play with myself. He will actually ask if I’m OK if I don’t play 
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I’m 100% the same! When we started using a vibrator in sex we were worried that it might distract from the sex itself but it’s only made everything better (and much more orgasms)!
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The OH rubs her clit during sex and yes it is a massive turn on! Like @steevo68 said, when she’s doing it doggy gets me going too! Maybe just start rubbing your clit every now and again while having sex and see how it feel and the reaction of your OH.
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My wife rarely comes from penetration alone so whenever I’m inside her she uses a bullet or wand on her clitoris. I love it as I love watching her come.
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Yes I always need clitoral stimulation. My husband finds it a turn on though so only increases the fun for both of us
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Massive turn on when the OH plays whilst we are having sex, it is all about mutual enjoyment and it is the way to attain simultaneous Orgasms.
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My wife loves to rub her clit during sex but also enjoys the intensity of her wand especially when she puts it on my cock feeling my cock vibrate and her clit at the same time … that really gets her going
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Absolutely, hubby finds it such a turn on when I play with myself, and he loves watching me do it
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Heya, I know exactly how you are feeling. I was really awkward at doing this with partners at first but have found that guys actually find it such a turn on.
I now do it a-lot of the time when having sex. Either using my fingers or using a magic wand for instance which is amazon when on your stomach getting f*cked from behind.
Quick question @Lovehoney_Brenna but what’s the forums rules on swearing? x
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Love watching the wife play with her clit during sex. Just gives her more of an intense orgasm
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@Sophie01 I’m not Breanna but here’s a line from the rules: “Do not use unnecessary expletives”. Guess it’s up to interpretation what “unnecessary” is
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Google the coital alignment technique. As a position is arguably the best for clitoral stimulation during sex. Hard to explain but in a standard missionary, the man slides up the woman so his head is above hers. Then rather sliding/thrusting as normal, he moves up and down (as if trying to it the roof with his bum and back to the floor). My wife isn’t a vocal lover at all but I’ve heard her gasping for breath and scratching my back using this. It’s really our go to position these days.
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I’m someone who needs a lot of clit stimulation to feel good during sex, so my boyfriend typically does it or he/I will use some kind of clit stimulator (vibe, lelo, womanizer, etc.) (since I don’t like how it feels when I do it). It’s something that’s totally normal, as most woman need some form of clit stimulation, so don’t feel embarrassed! Maybe talk about it beforehand with him and maybe see if he’d like to help 
My boyfriend usually likes to do it cause he wants us both to be having a good time, so if you’re boyfriend cares about how you feel during sex you shouldn’t be embarrassed to bring it up, he’ll probably be more happy to help 
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Yes all the time!!! My boyfriend finds it such a turn on- that’s not why I do it though, I do it for me but I know it drives him wild. Sometimes when my boyfriend rubs my clit it’s not in the right spot or too much pressure so I either guide him or do it myself.
Just talk to your oh about it, I’m sure he will love the idea or you can slowly introduce it by rubbing your clit while he’s fingering you during foreplay and then do it during sex. Have fun xx
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Totally go for it!! I bet he’ll love it I do it all the time with my OH and he loves it 
or even ask your boyfriend if he wants to do it for you? After all sex is for both people to enjoy 
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I totally agree with @elora93, either do it urself or encourage him to do it for you. I’m sure he’d feel better if you could orgasm together during sex than you taking care of yourself after.
Personally I love watching my wife touch herself as she gets more turned on, squeezing her breasts or touching her clit during sex and feeling her orgasm with me inside is amazing.
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Please don’t be embarrassed, this is completely normal. And the more you communicate your sexual needs with your partner the better!
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OH loves it when her clit is getting rubbed, by me, whilst I’m deep inside her. One hand stimulates her nipples, the other is rubbing her clit, she’s backed up tight against me on her side. Can always guarantee multi orgasms for her. Turns her legs to jelly.
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I think a lot of girls need a bit of both to fully climax, I will rub my partner while we’re having sex if we’re trying to cum together.
ALSO if he’s started a job he needs to make sure he finishes it!!! It’s a two way street 
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Try not to be self conscious you are both naked anyway do what you feel is right for you and enjoy yourself
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