We normally get down to it in the bedroom 2-3 times a week and I’m always satisfied and have already got to orgasm a few times before my husband gets inside me. Once he is inside, he can often cum rather quickly so I usually rub my clit also to allow us to finish at the same time. I just got used to doing this and just had a thought if others did the same?
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I previously did this, until I discovered suction toys. I started with The Pro40, then the Womanizer next but now I prefer using the Melt 2 because the design is perfect during PIV 
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As a man I will happily do this and lend a hand while having PIV sex.
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Sounds great , especially being able to orgasm together at the end. And yes rubbing your own clit, or using a vibe on your clit or directing his hand to rub your clit during sex are all very common.
you could try and slow down the piv thrusting /grinding to see if he lasts longer.
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I use a wi vibe melt at the same time.
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Mrs bustywife has orgasmed a couple of times before penetration she’ll stroke her clit if shes on top so we cum together
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Yes definitely do it too.not with the sole intent to cum at first. It just gives me extra pleasure and I know that my OH likes to see me doing it .it’s as much a visual thing for him as a physical one for me .it’s like when I lick my own nipples when he’s inside me ,he loves too see that too so just an added visual thing for him to enjoy.
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We have tried a few different things and strategies recently but not found anything that seems to work. The good news is he is very open to ideas to be able to last longer 
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Cream helps me last longer but usually its fine without and stimulating the clit at the same time is a must for us too
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Sorry mis read your post earlier on this ,perhaps your strategy for him to last longer would be to not touch your clit until he’s ready to cum as it sounds like this is the trigger for him .perhaps hold off on the penetrative sex at intervals and maybe swap it for oral for either of you or both until your both ready .or maybe try edging him.its a great way of getting used to not cumming my husband says.its great for control
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My husband laves it if I do this while holding eye contact. The poor man never stood a chance 
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It sounds like you have the formula figured out. My OH will rub her clit the whole time we are having PIV sex, and even before, unless I am giving her oral. Thankfully I can last a long time so she can enjoy as many orgasms as she can endure. I often struggle to cum so sometimes I don’t even finish at all. But I always enjoy the intimacy anyway. Her pleasure is my pleasure.
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There is absolutely nothing hotter , than if u can cum at the same time. We us a wand. The wife will place it on her clit. While I’m inside her. The feeling is next level. We let each other know who’s close to cumming so the other can ajust and cum together. Don’t get it right all the time. But when we do far out it’s hot 
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Yes love doing this or using a toy at the same time.
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That’s a day that ends in “Y” over here! Nothing wrong with taking satisfaction into your own hands to ensure that everyone who wants an orgasm gets an orgasm! Our default bedtime sex is missionary variations with wife providing her own digital stimulation. The We-Vibe Melt comes out once or twice a week to mix up supporting that position.
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That’s great. I’d like to try something like that, my OH has an aversion to toys however.
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My o/h has been doing this for longer that I can remember, it really helps her enjoy herself shall we say (I never last enough otherwise)
Only issue is, if I am on top her knuckles can dig into the lower part of my pubic mound if I’m too close, and that’s exactly where something is hiding on my right side and I will leap off if it gets poked..