I doubt I am alone in this but I have been enjoying ruined orgasms after being edged for a long time.
It has a lot about having the time to take it slow and also having someone pay close attention to your pleasure, teasing you but not letting you go over the edge.
Story of my life for the last 5 or 6 years in chastity.
Tease and denial and ruined orgasms.
Solo pursuit or is this being done to you
Being done to me.
Female led male chastity by my darling wife.
Teased, denied, edged and allowed to come rarely.
This is true. You have to keep at least a low level of stimulation up during edging, or you will lose the erection. Of course, not backing off soon enough on stimulation will make you cum rapidly; which also ruins the effect of edging.
I have a love-hate relationship with ruined orgasms, l love to hate them and I hate to love them. I was punished once with a ruined orgasm, except even if I hated my then-Dom immediately afterwards, I kind of loved him too. It was a very intimate, arousing pain, and even if I still wanted an orgasm (because my orgasm felt “incomplete”), I couldn’t stimulate myself without hypersensitivity (yes, I’m a “one and done” girl, although I can achieve multiple orgasms when I’m really turned on, or through combined clitoral/vaginal stimulation).
Would I suggest my Dominant counterpart/s consider them often? Maybe only if they have a death wish, or at least a wish for my (likely very messy) retribution.
Cant stand them. Like @Tenshadesandme, im a one and done kinda gal, so if my body has even started the orgasm, i cant really get there again, and if i do, its not the same. We edge ALOT (well he edges me and i have rules to edge myself at certain times) and he will sometimes go too far and then stop thinking he stopped in time. It has actually bought me to the cusp of tears when its happened
I cried too and I think that was what mate me hate my then-Dom, I felt he’d punished me and he knew I wasn’t okay with being punished in anger. We did talk about it and he said he wouldn’t do it again but I ended up admitting a few weeks later that it was kind of hot and I wansn’t against ruined orgasms, just not as a mode of punishment 
Hes never done it as punishment. That would be a hard limit for me also. I value my orgasms too much for that 
Right? I put heart and soul into having mine and I do not like wasting my energy
It’s enough of a punishment if you lose control during edging.
Don’t like a full on ruined orgasm but just a very small one enough to make you cum a minimal amount so you can then carry on edging for some time before releasing fully. Does anyone else do this
As far as my husband is concerned its about my pleasure and if i dont orgasm then he feels that he has not satisfied me. He gets to cum after me so i have never had a ruined orgasm.
Sexterminatrix and I explored this briefly, however she discovered that she really loves watching me come. Given that, we may have to revisit it so that she can enjoy it several times in a session.
I love being edged by my wife. She strokes me until I’m about to come and then just stops, gives me a minute or two and starts again. She repeats for maybe five times at which point I’m essentially asking her to let me cum.
But occasionally she will stroke me until I’m just about to cum and can’t stop from cumming and if she can time it perfectly will stop as I start. This results in me cumming but only by oozing it out instead of an explosive orgasm. It feels good and bad at the same time. Pain and pleasure thing. I don’t want it all the time but maybe three times in a year is terrific. And yes I love it when it happens, just don’t want it to happen all the time.
I want that all the time. I love being ruined but my wife finds it difficult both physically and emotionally to do it.
I’d love to experience it with a lady who truly enjoys being that cruel.