I just wanted to share 
My wife and I love to wrestle… Which leads to dominating rough sex.
She loves it because and I quote “loves to struggle and feel dominated”. I love it because it allows me let loose and go “beast mode” in a safe way. And for both of us… the competition is fun!
But in order for it to work we both need to give it our all to feel satisfied with an actual chance of either of us winning. As expected I’m a lot stronger but also because of my sporting background.
So here are a few an alternative rules we play to try even the odds:
Hide the Chips - each couple in secret hides any number of poker chips on their persons. The challenge is to end up with most chips by either keeping all the ones you have or stealing your partner’s after a certain time. Wrestling and stripping eachother off to find the eachother chips. Once you have lost a chip, you can not steal it back.
Standard pinning with a count of 3 with these handicaps:
- blindfolded
- 1 arm tied behind back
- only on knees
- opponent can start on any position
- legs tied together
- all of the above with oil.
Does anyone else like to wrestle? If so what’s your rules of engagement?
) so I need someone who can “handle” me. I also like to “let go” and be a little bit mad sometimes - it can be very cathartic to have someone who can “handle” my anger. At the same time, I’m not actually mad at my husband and I don’t want to hurt him. So, while he lets me let go, there is absolutely a limit to how far I can let go. For example, I can growl and scream and call him some names if he pins me, but insulting him or his parents would be going too far.