How do you know if a porn site is 'safe' to look at?
Some stuff is obviously a complete no no - eg anything involving underage people, animals or clearly forced, but if one searches the internet how does one know if the images that appear are 'legal'?
How would you know what the age of the subject was for example, or if the image has been stollen and is one of these revenge postings?
With some much in the news recently about people downloading images that are illegal is it just best not to look at all?
I use Xconfessions, its a feminist friendly porn site, all porn is made by Erika Lust. All stars are over 18, and the films are like art house films, so beautiful.
It's for the same reasons you talk about like people being of age etc that makes me question most porn sites. For me, the negative ethical issues around it massively outweigh the benefit I'd get from it.
I think you have to use your own judgment to a degree as many will have a still picture and tags before you press play. I must admit there have been those that I have switched off after about 10 seconds as some are incorrectly tagged .
Many though I do find rather crude for women to watch based off my OH's reactions .