Just a silly post to see what others use for their safe word. I personally use the traffic light system because I find it means that kinky play doesn’t have to completely stop.
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Coca Cola = Red Light
Lemonade = Orange Light
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If you’re using the trafic light method : Red should be a hard stop. As in any word someone might choose to equal Red such as @tuc1991 mentiond Coca Cola would be. I have friends that use words that hey can easily remember; one friend usses Avocado because they know that will catch my attention everytime (because I hate avocado) another uses touch because they are on the divergent scale and when stimulated they are not able to find words. For me my safeword is Kansas = Yellow slow pace or intensity and Shark = Red STFN (Stop The Fuck Now) if someone has gotten me to that point some boundry has been crossed. I hope safe words are a part of all negotiations prior to play.
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I always make a point of discussing safe words and boundaries before engaging in anything kinky with a new partner. I think the reason I use green amber and red is because I think calling out an obscure word would pull me out of my subspace. Luckily for me I have rarely had to use red and when I have its been respected and after care has immediately started x
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The safe word I use is “cupcake” although that doesn’t work when you have a ball gag in your mouth. From there the safe word defaults to “mphhh,mpphhhh”
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Me and my wife don’t use safe words. Open to anything really. However if it’s too far it’s normally
“uh eh” and if it’s go go go it’s normally sounds like “ oh oh fuck yeah!”
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Primary relationship: traffic light system or “burgundy” in social situations. “Beige” if I’m living dangerously 
Pumpernickel with my other partner.
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Mainly the traffic light system for intense and nore serious scenes but flamingo if were just having fun
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I did see a wonderful domme , who used the traffic light system but “Red” didn’t mean stop , it meant “ this is the limit” .
The safeword was “Jennifer” .
She respected it without question, and went into “care” mode , until she had checked it was OK to continue.
A truly wonderful lady
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Pineapple!!! 
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Words and phrases that are not safewords
You sonof B…
Holy f***
That ain’t right….
I’ll behave… (tried that way to many times)
Look..squirrel
Oooooo when I get up from here…
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I use my husband’s first name sometimes too. Amazing how quickly that pulls him back to earth.
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“F* ck off with that cheesy f* cking pinwheel!”
Left him in fits of laughter but it didn’t make him stop 
Nor should it have I am simply aghast!
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If I say my husband’s full name, he instantly stops anything he’s doing and starts looking for an escape.
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Oh if I use my husband’s full name he knows they won’t find the body 
@Blizzard and @Tenshadesandme what if they use YOUR full names?
I am so glad I’m never in full name type of trouble.
… then they still won’t find the body, though it’ll be for an entirely different cause 
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