Ok so let’s get into this. My wife and I are absolutely in a great marriage been together for like 14 years now, we never lost the spark and have an absolutely amazing sex life. Now I’m a deviant and have the kink, for some reason I’m very interested in watching my wife suck someones dick. it’s beyond just that though. The thing is she’s down to do that on a one time basis. In my head “Guy” is picked and what not and we invite him over. After some light banter I direct the situation into next phase. I would get her to sit on my lap and finger her and whatnot while introducing him to the prospect of appreciating that my wife was going to do this for him at my request. Now at some point I envision I’d invite him to play with her breast and just take the opportunity to see this guy appreciate my wife as visually sexual. At this point guy can be verbal, or stimulate himself or whatever but before I send my wife to this guy to do this I want my wife to perform fellatio on me. Of course among all this banter ensues etc but my wife gets done and well for me she swallows. Now comes the iffy part I need clarification with. I instruct her that now comes the part where she does it for guy. Like a champ she’s willing. Banter ensues. Oh by the way, “lucky guy”, she’s not interested in swallowing your cum at all. Sooo, those with experience in these things there’s a 100% chance she swallows my cum, there’s a zero% chance she swallows guys cum, how would that be addressed. She’s telling me type thing if guy cums in my mouth without warning he’s wearing that and I want to avoid that but at the same time in conversations we’ve had, she’s willing to spit but would prefer I find a solution to avoid her mouth period, she’s willing to let guy cum on her tits, and then there’s the forewarning of over here is a rag so when you get close locate the rag type deal. Are the basis covered am I overlooking something or what’s going on? Bonus kink if guys willing to help us by staying and recording the proceeding kinky sex. I want the recording, she’s into being watched and we both love acting like teenagers and not being able to get enough of each other.
With the cum in the mouth from the other guy, I’d just say it and we girls now when you’re going to come so I’d just start pumping instead and it go over my face / breasts or him.
I would love this opportunity and your wife is lucky that you’re planning it so well and the fact that you’d be instructing me, I’d be cumming so much!
Could he just not wear a condom?
My issue with all this though and your ‘scenario’ is that you seem to want to get someone to your house without them knowing what you expect to get from it. Having been in this situation before, its not nice. It may be better to actually plan this with someone and invite them over on the premise that this is whats going to happen and set boundaries and rules. That way aswell, its clear what everyones roles are and whats expected of everyone.
100% agree with @Kh1985
If she doesn’t want him cum in her mouth, use a condom.
I hate to break this to you, but you aren’t going to find an unsuspecting human being to come over and make this go exactly as you’ve described. The chances are they are either going to freak out and leave or assume more than just a blow job and breast fondle is on the cards. If you want someone to follow your script, you need to send them the script before they agree to do it.
Thirds in threesome scenarios aren’t just there as kink dispensers for the couple, unless that’s been expressly agreed beforehand.
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@Simply_Curious6164
Welcome to the club
Firstly think long and hard about what you are proposing- it’s a fantasy watching a man being sucked off by your wife - but when the time happens every part of you will want to stop this from happening- you have been together for years and there is a strong bond
Personally I would not do it - but if you do - be careful and have a good long conversation with her and see her thoughts on the matter - if she is ok with it - have a code word in case at any time you decide to stop
Secondly have a do and don’t list - yes to sucking but no to swallowing cum and if she is not to allow him to cum - can she finish him by hand …
Take care
Soo, I’m a little like your wife in this situation (also been married 11 years next week), only the two men that I’m shared by (kind of on a break at the moment over a misunderstanding) are friends, good friends, and usually at my expense. The not-my-husband “guy” is also a close friend of mine. Everyone in this arrangement knows what’s going on, and everyone consents to being involved in it.
As others have said, your chances of finding a stranger who is a willing volunteer that you both like is close to zero, and your chances of finding a stranger that you both like, who is willing to share your wife and not be dictated to are even closer to zero again. I know that’s probably not what you want to hear, but, I have to be realistic with you. As a woman shared, I’ve had more than my fair share of problems with people who aren’t willing to respect our boundaries.
Of course, what you could do, genuinely, is find someone who practices ethical non-monogamy, who respects your boundaries and is willing to “play along”. Sure, it will essentially be acting, but at least you will all know and be agreed on the boundaries.
Lastly, and before you get down to business, don’t forget about STI screening 
We have a swop couple and have done what you describe.
The non participating female usually videos the event. We have never had a problem with either of us swallowing sperm from either man. Maybe you should discuss the issue in more detail with your wife. If she is prepared to go down on another guy with you as the spectator and swallowing your load is not a problem then it shouldn’t be a problem with the other guy. What’s the reason to hold back?
Please take this with the kindness that is intended, I think you are being unrealistic.
The key problem, if she enjoys giving blowjobs then she will enjoy giving a blowjob and will want him to cum in her mouth. You have to accept she will have his cum inside her one way or another if you start down this route.
But also, your fantasy is too prescriptive, threesomes and group sex just don’t work like that. It is much better to think of it as each guy taking turns.
Threesomes can be fun, but they never live up to the fantasy, the variant I prefer is that the two guys are in separate rooms and the woman moves from room to room. If you want to watch you can stand at the door, but my experience is that listening is much sexier, get her to leave both doors open.
Very kinky and erotic @Simply_Curious6164 . Only point I will make is that a real life experience is not likely to fit your choreograph. It sounds like you are both secure with the idea but be preprepared for it being a little different than planned in real life.
Ok, so you want your wife to suck another mans penis, but you don’t know how to say do not cum in her mouth? Is this a man that you know? Will it be someone that you’ll get to know? You’re just ok bringing a stranger into your house? AND I wouldn’t be putting a strangers bare penis in my mouth, absolutely not. He could have a dolly mixture of STIs!
Then after your choreographed scene plays out, you expect him to record you and your wife having sex and then what? He just goes home?
I think you’ve thought through what gets you off, but you’ve not thought through the practicalities that keep you both safe. This should stay as a fantasy until you figure it out properly.
I think your fantasy is great, you could easily share this with someone and they’d happily oblige. I think honesty is the best policy. Just need to find the right person that you’d trust
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Seems like a great fantasy, could you not replace with a life-like dildo with suction base?
She could be then sucking on that whilst you fondle her, acting out your fan by telling her what to do.
We have often done this as part of a ‘split-roasting’ fantasy play, which would never happen in reality.
I used to share my ex with a friend.Sometimes three in a bed,sometimes in seperate rooms.She would have an hour with me,then go next door and an hour with him and so on.Listening with both doors open was absolutely a tremendous turn on.Her groans,sighs and all the other sounds of lovemaking were so erotic as was wondering what they were doing to make those sounds happen.Also when she came back to my bed,stockings with come stains or come dripping down her face it was awesome.The seperate room idea was fantastic.