Hey all, soon as Joe has gone back to uni this morning I’m planning on having what I call a ‘self love day’. It’ll consist of running a bath, watching some sexy movies and playing all day.
Does anyone else do this sort of thing and if so what do you like to do? 
(Em)
@emandjoe
We kinda work the same hours, so are generally together when we are in.
I like to self love in front of her 
That sounds fun, we do it in front of each other sometimes, but there are times where I like to just be by myself. (Em)
I’ve never been lucky to have all day and once i’ve cum I want to get on and do other things. Have a wonderful day and you should tell us all about it. @emandjoe
I really enjoy having days like this, it really allows me to explore any fantasies I’m having a little more in my own mind.
Have you explored cross dressing - lots of fun
When im working, OH has evenings of self love time which she likes to tell me all about. She likes to keep to herself at the time and enjoys just playing on her own sometimes, but the next day she will tell me all about it. It usually involves a variety of toys and movies.
That sounds wonderful ! I am lucky to have an hour or two , a whole day would be a treat . I have a small collection of porn clips I have saved along with quite a few home made porn featuring me . My wife has been totally inactive fore many years , just lately she seems to be thinking and talking about sexual stuff . Now that I am starting to get a tan I would spend part of the day wearing my white lace stockings and probably a number of my favorite lace panties . I would be wearing my remote controlled egg anally so I could walk around while it runs on random patterns . Depending on mood I might switch to my black lace stocking and garter belt . I would switch between my cock cage and cock rings . Some time during the day I would be sounding my cock . Hopefully off and on I could be licking my pre cum off my cock . Oh I almost forgot wearing my chained nipple clamps and nipple suckers . I might have to see how many times I could cum in a day . After warming up with my egg I would get hungry and maybe start with the dildos I use anally . Start with the smallest 6" and work my way up to what I call my big boy , a rare large diameter 9" . Around mid day if it was sunny I would have to sneak in some nude sun bathing , I use coconut oil and the fragrance makes me even hornier . Have some fun and enjoy your body and hope you cum and cum again .
My preferred way is in a hot bath and just let my fingers explore my vagina while my brain fantasies about the men in my life
Is that anybody who finds you? 
Im going to have a full week if self love as she’s away for a week with her sisters .
A bath and a book are amazing!
@steve19 it was a very relaxing day, put on some sexy films and used my waterproof vibrator in the bath. It was heaven!! (Em)
I bet you had a great time, will it be long before you see him again? Are you allowed to play without him or is it something where he is always involved? You seem to have a great relationship either way. @emandjoe
Sexy movie, get naked and slowly touch myself all over with a nice amount of baby oil and sometimes the wifes vibrator on my balls… slowly bring myself up and normally stop just short a few times before finally it gets too much. Its heaven. Sex is great but sometimes self love is what you need
We kind of do this.
There used to be a thread about cleaning your toys every first Saturday of the month.
I would always run my wife a bath and then put everything on charge while I clean our room.
She would then clean herself and then spend some time in the room, cleaning the toys…. But you would often hear the door shut and the toys needed to be cleaned again.
I never it was always her time and also quite a turn on to hear her having fun.
@emandjoe
Wife OH being away a lot I have lots of
self love days, were you can relax, explore new things to give yourself pleasure
This is how I found that my suction dildo can be very pleasurable
I can orgasm a couple of times a session and a few times in one day x
Quite often we will have fun alone but will occasionally send videos when the other person gives permission