Morning all, need to give myself a self spanking on monday as well overdue. I am a single man who lives at home so monday is the only day. In the past i have used my hand and the wooden spoon along with a dose of the belt. I have done self spank over wet boxers before which hurt lol.
Would like to know if anyone has any tips to make it more interesting
Thanks in advance
I randomly did it to myself the other day. I was watching porn. Had a good butt plug in. Was playing with my nipples and thought sod it I’ll try smacking the hell out of my butt.
Some seriously loud claps and slaps. Didn’t actually hurt that much but was quite good fun.
My wife isn’t into spanking. Sometimes doggy I’ll give her ass a few gentle slaps and grabs.
She sometimes does some gentle ones to me. My hands were OK but might try other things then I used a good vibrating stroker to finish me off.
Hi ppl
In another forum I write spanking fiction - just do a search for my name but I was going to suggest a couple of things - I have been with my partner who I met on a well known website and I have played for 18 years now.
Have you to thought about trying a riding crop - can be bought at Decathlon - not expensive. Also what about a wooden ruler, get a old fashioned one, it will be less likely to break, in this regard more expensive is probably better. I have a 15 inch ruler which gives a different sensation to a metre rule like we used in school for science lessons.
Metre rule much more thuddy
Old fashioned wooden ruler more stingy.
Riding crop dependent on the size of the leather tip - smaller more stingy - can be more or less stingy. Word of warning - Don’t use the shaft of the riding crop as a cane, it Is often made of inflexible material, sometimes even steel, and will bruise you badly, sometimes taking weeks sometimes even a month or 2 for the bruising to fully disappear.
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Pim Parnell
Might have to try the ruler, I live at home so riding crop maybe not a good idea (nosey parents lol)… was going to try wooden spoon again soon
Doesn’t feel right when i do it to myself. But i do like slapping my penis against my stomach or hand or the edge of my desk if that’s where i am.
I just tried self spanking yesterday after reading some stories/punishments. Reading didn’t leave anything to the imagination. I imagined myself being various girls and being spanked. I used my hand, then spatula, then hairbrush and after more reading/spanking this morning I was absolutely soaking. I had no idea it could be so much of a turn on. It didn’t even feel weird though I thought it would. I’m loving finding new topics and exploring my mind and body. It’s like I have a new lease of life. Thank you LH for this mind-blowing community section 
Thanks for sharing your experience @Amunique . I’d love to be spanked but my OH isn’t interested. I thought about self spanking but decided it would feel a bit weird. Now that you’ve said that it doesn’t feel weird, i’m going to give it a go next time i have the house to myself!
You have nothing to lose @Kitty-Cat01 . Your OH might even enjoy seeing your wee red cheeks when they get home. Good luck, hope you enjoy it as much as me
Glad you are enjoying the topic… I am due once I get back from my hols so that will be a good one lol… my ultimate fantasy is to be spanked by a lady
Will update on the self spanking once done
Had a mild self spanking session the other day so had reddened cheeks for a while which felt good, started off with hand spanking over boxers then boxers came down and straight on the bare, had a go with the belt but did not get the required swing
I did what I would describe as my first proper self spanking session today. I don’t think my wife will ever do it to me so thought I would have a go.
Butt plug in, using nipple suckers nipple clamps and using the suckers on my tummy until red circle marks left.
Using my hand only. If I would have remembered I would have tried some other things.
Slapped my inner things until red.
Slapped other parts of my legs.
Slapped my buttocks until red. Loud fast slaps.
Slapped tummy chest nipples balls and cock.
Also slapped my face a lot? Is that odd, anyone else self spank slap their face?
I’ve never done it to my wife but do see men do it in porn films.
4 slaps right hand to right face 4 slaps left hand to left face did a bit of that.
Next time I get house to myself will try some other things. Might even use some ice Cubs over me before some spanking. Enjoy! 
Today used a large wooden spoon spanking on myself = pretty painful.
Used a smaller wooden spoon on myself = not as painful as larger wooden spoon.
Used my wife’s hair brush large wooden flat hair brush on my thighs and buttocks and brought on some redness and wasn’t too painful.
Played with ice lots today and when covered in cold water used my hands on various places which woke my skin up!
There are a couple of other topics about spanking where I was intending to raise a question about self-spanking and then I came across this one specifically devoted to it. There haven’t been any additions to it for a while but hopefully the discussion can be revived.
I wanted to ask if there are any others out there into self-spanking. I live alone and so my only option is to self-spank. I use my hands as I find trying to use implements of various sorts too awkward. A hand spanking supplies a sufficiently satisfying stinging sensation which is very arousing.
As for being weird, as was suggested, I don’t think it’s any more so than the many other things that people on the forum describe indulging in. It’s all about the different ways people get their enjoyment and pleasure and everyone has their preferences, which is fine. I think it’s important to embrace whatever gives you satisfaction as part of a happy and fulfilling sex life, rather than denying yourself some pleasure.
For me, self-spanking plays a part in a fantasy I have about a strict mistress, which I have mentioned in another topic, who punishes me for any misbehaviour, disobedience etc. and she can be very difficult to please!
So that’s me, what about any other self-spankers out there. Are there many, and if so, how do you enjoy it?
When Mistress is not here to administer my “punishment” i like to use a wooden spoon on myself.It gives a lovely sting and makes a great “Thwack” sound.Hopefully soon you will find a Mistress to own and control/punish you.In the meantime my Wife and Mistress has instructed me to tell you i am being caned tonight for wearing black lingerie yesterday and although i looked very sexy i also looked rather slutty which is a look i love.I am to receive 6 hard strokes and thank her after each one.She says as you have no Mistress at the moment it is only good and proper at the same time this evening (8.00pm Punishment hour) that you also self spank yourself on her orders and also say Thank You Mistress after each one.She is indeed a kindred spirit i feel.
I certainly will attend to myself as instructed. I’m sure that I thoroughly deserve it and I would hate to let her down! And of course I will voice my appreciation for having my misdemeanors dealt with.