Hi, I have an online dom relationship with somebody who loves to be directed to spank himself. He can’t get the required level of force on his backside which is where he really enjoys it. That’s partly because he struggles to be able to put enough swing/backforce into it. So he’s relatively restricted to spanking just his thighs with his belt and also a little on his back.
Does anyone have any suggestions on an implement or something that he could make at home to enable him to get more power in his spanking - maybe some form ofspring loaded device?
You could try electro toys - these are where he attaches to his penis / balls or up his anus and then you demand he shocks himself - some toys are remote do you can use your phone app to shock him
I find crops are the easiest thing to self spank with, just not the mini ones or the full length ones; something in the middle.
If he can’t get enough power in the swing, I would suggest getting him to look at different materials. Rubber, silicone, certain textures, being lightweight, flexible etc can all make a toy more stingy and generally mean he wouldn’t need to put as hard of a swing on it to get the pain level he is looking for.
