Hi, I'm a straight guy who can self suck, not something I've opened up about much and I would appreciate feedback/views especially from women. My ex gf wasnt into it - bit of a deal breaker........ hoping this forum is a place for some kind of info exchange or discussion. I've got a sense of humour but I'm kinda hoping for some genuine comments. Havent had a gf who had experienced it before - I dont think it's that common. And never been on a forum before! Anyway here goes and hello:)
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Hi there and welcome :D I don't really know what to say on the self-suck topic :) never come across it tbh :) although I know that if it was my partner Id much rather I got the pleasure of doing the sucking myself ;) sorry for being nosy but are you really bendy or just really *ahem* long down there?
Hi there and thanks for the welcome and feedback - yeah my ex wanted to keep it more as her thing and also i think she thought it was kinda gross which didnt feel so good tbh. To ansa your question, I'm very flexible and told im vwe. Anways hi :)
Hey and welcome to the forums :-) I absolutely Beg my OH to do that, I'd say there will be a vast majority of lasses who'll love it :-)
Yuck sorry first ever boyfriend kept on about it made me feel sick I was only 19 at the time.
Hi and thanks for the welcome and thanks for what you said :) Can your OH blow himself too? Its cool to hear its not a gross out for you at least.
Sorry guess its not for you kittencub. Anway hi :)
You use your hand, so why not use your mouth if you can! I don't see much difference with someone else doing it as opposed to you doing it. Do you think she saw it as being gay, so it changed her perception of you?
Either way, I'm totally jealous. I wish I had such an awesome gift. Enjoy :)
Thanks :) Yeah I think she might have seen it as a gay thing...........which is lame imo, its not about orientation.
Hi KT and welcome to the forums! :)
Are you able to orgasm from doing it at all? Please don't worry if you are uncomfortable to answer. Just think its quite an interesting topic!
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Subdom27 wrote:
You use your hand, so why not use your mouth if you can! I don't see much difference with someone else doing it as opposed to you doing it. Do you think she saw it as being gay, so it changed her perception of you?
Either way, I'm totally jealous. I wish I had such an awesome gift. Enjoy :)
I agree with Subdom , and I`m totally jealous as well
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Hi and welcome, if you enjoy it then do it!
I'm sure there's plenty of women who would love that you can do that, it doesn't turn me on the idea of it as such but it doesn't bother me either
If hubby could do it then I wouldn't mind but I'd much rather he saved all his pleasure for me to do ;)
Hi. Go for it. I wish I could do it and it's not for the lack of trying! Enjoy it I would and if OH doesn't want you to do it in front of them do it on your own.
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I'm in the same boat as you.
Hi Paige and thanks for your comments. :) Yeah I can make myself cum from blowing myself - is that hot or a gross out?
Thanks for the welcome and comments everyone - appreciate it :)
I worry about your spine unless you are extremely well endowed! No other problem with it.
I honestly have a recurring dream of being able to do this and then wake up so utterly disappointed!
Yoga 3 times a week, and I am still no where near flexible enough to acheive this!
Hi and welcome to the forums x
Had a boyfriend many years ago who could do this. Found it a massive turn on, certainly made it easier on my jaw. . . .if I got tired - he could take over !!
Bit surprised it was a deal breaker for your ex - but each to their own xx
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Hi :) i think its mostly to do with flexibiliy tbh. Im not into yoga or anything although I might try cos ive heard its a good thing to do wellbeing wise - but yoga must help with flexibilty (?) Thanks for your comment, I've always thought there must be guys who would want to do it if they could.