Long term use of Tadalafil is a no no. Read the paper work in the box. It can cause temp loss of sight and worse. Been there!
He’s been on them for nearly 2 years the only side effects he had was at the very beginning which was bad headaches but they halved the dose & he’s been fine on it ever since
I took 75mg daily for 2 years 3 months. Then lost sight in my right eye for about 3 hours. Taken of Tadalafil since and will not take again.
That’s a very high dose. My hubby is only on 10mg a day
So sorry about the Cancer, I know that must have taken its toll, great for getting through it !
As for the eww comment, as some others have said, it could be a medication Also as someone else said, He may feel you are more fragile and didnt want to put pressure on you . I somehow feel maybe you have lost the intimacy not just physically but in your communication. Either way you are not happy, so even if it becomes a difficut coversation, I think it is best to talk to him… Life is too short to be wondering what each other are thinking,
These medical issues, they affect our lives in so many ways.
Just my opinion, talk, listen and get the Dr involved.(with the medication ) I have a feeling things will turn out great in the end.
P.S nothing wrong with being addicted to your partner… and NO you are not being selfish, we all need intimacy.
Update…
I quite often find myself on Lovehoney browsing though the toys & decided to join the forum as a last resort as I don’t have any friends to talk to so it has only been my own insecure thoughts in my head & when I originally posted I was in such a dark place & I had convinced myself that he must no longer love me.
However since then I have read & re-read the comments on here & decided that no matter how painful the conversation might go I had to talk to him.
The conversation was the hardest, we spoke about everything, I cried & he cried (he never shows emotions) but we did eventually get a lot out in the open & I feel so much better for it.
We have made an agreement that once a week we will make time for us to reconnect whether that is physical or emotional we will decide on how we both feel at that time, so no pressure.
I am optimistic that we will be ok
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That is great news, good luck to you both.
So pleased you were both able to talk and sort it all out.