I have extremely sensitive nipples and not in a good way. Having them touched is like the worst tickling feeling and I find it a major turn off and very unpleasant. Only when I am very turned on can I actually enjoy them being touched but even thats not a guarantee.
Sadly it means my OH misses out on a lot of fun, he really loves my breasts and nipples and very much enjoys kissing, sucking them etc and I would like to be able to let him enjoy that more often. At the moment he is lucky if he is able to suck my nipples more than a couple of times a year maybe. He is very respectful of my problem and never touches them (on purpose) without permission but I get very nervous and scared anytime he is near them such as when cuddling, just because the feeling is so horrible.
So, any suggestions on things I can do to de-sensitise them?