i tested the sex at the grave yard, i was so horny, so excited at this place, any one tried practice of sex at grave yard? and why this pleasure me? made me so horny
No that would creep me out
No, I don't think I could do that. I'd feel like I was disrespecting the dead
Not the right place to have sex.
+1NatandTom wrote:
No, I don't think I could do that. I'd feel like I was disrespecting the dead
Oh no, I couldn't do that. It's so disrespectful to the dead, same as it would be in church grounds. It's disrespecting the great one imo 🙈
But different courses for different horses and all that 💟xx
As above, too disrespectful.
Having said that I'd love to have really filthy sex in a confessions booth.
Goodness no. I'd be absolutely fuming and devastated if I found out someone had done that near my nan's grave. Couldn't ever imagen doing it. So disrespectful.
A graveyard is a place for peaceful reflection and mourning. Not sex.
Just so wrong in so many ways :(
I did this (and in church) when I was younger. Looking back I just cringe because it shows such a blatant lack of respect, not so much for the dead but for the living - relatives and friends of those in the ground, imagine them stumbling upon you. Awful.
Next time I see bird poo on a family grave, Im going to wonder :(
I also agree that it's disrespectful and I would never do it. I can barely walk over someones grave, I take a lot of detours just not to walk over someone.
Guess its because people want to go down the taboo route :(
You could probably find the same thrill in another secluded outdoor area, or else another area you're 'not supposed' to have sex. The thrill will not have come from being amongst corpses and headstones, I assure you. I'd look out for another less disrespectful place to get your outdoor/naughty thrills, there's plenty of options. Also I'd work on not letting horny thoughts and feelings cloud your judgement as to where is a good place for naughty fun and where you should show a bit of consideration and respect for others (dead or alive). I'm sure you knew deep down this would be offensive to others. Don't get so caught up in the moment all conscious or restraint flees.
Couldn't do it in a graveyard too disrespectful to those that have been buried there
I don't have a problem with this, any more than i have problems with sex in a public place generally, provided it wasn't actually on someone's grave.
In fact it's almost fitting that potential new life is found amongst the deceased.
Not that it matters but I have plenty of family buried in the local churchyard.
Well, I wouldn't be so quick to judge. Before anyone jumps on my throat too, let me just say I wouldn't do it, as I'm a bit influenced by horror stories, and rotting bodies and schelettons don't equal libido to me, and I was also raised not to walk on tombs as that is like walking over that person.
However, I do not believe it is disrespectful having sex in a graveyard, not more so than a school or a public pool or a church or wherever else that might "offend" people. It really is down to a person's personal beliefs. As an atheist I do not believe in life after death, so once someone is dead, all a graveyard does, is provide a place for a rotting peace of meat (sorry if my belief offends anyone). So it really isn't such a special place at all in my opinion. The dead are non-existent, so they cannot be offended by anyone. As for the living, the graveyard only offends their beliefs as much as any other public place should where sex might be inappropriate (changing rooms, spas, pools, beaches, churches, parks or whatever) - all public space sex has the potential to be disrespectful to someone else's beliefs be them religious or otherwise.
And in all honesty, some kinks we all have are labelled as such precisely because they are (or at least were at some point in human civilisation) "prohibited" by society. So the disrespectful nature of these is often part of the excitement. Humiliation is a self-explanatory example for that.
I don't see the issue, as long as it isn't on the actual graves. It is only the same in my opinion as having sex in another public place. I have had sex in changing rooms at a swimming pool (No seperate ladies/gents changing). Last year me and my OH stumbled upon an old church and after walking around we found a stair case that led us to a room upstairs, overlooking the rest of the church. There was absolutley no one about and I practically begged him to give it me there and then and he just couldn't.
There is always something in sex that can be considered disrespectful.
Not at all.
disrespectful to those that have been buried there for me even though i love outdoor fun thats one place i could not do it