Sex Bruises.

Sex Tips & Talk
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Hellooo ^_^

As you guys can see, I'm curious about sex bruises...do you think they're acceptable or not?

I personally love them, I don't feel they're dirty looking or say anything about myself, as the majority are hidden under clothing, recently I had a small one on my shoulder and I received a major shouting at from a family member & told if I continue wanting bruised I should find somewhere else to live. It's not with intention I want to be bruised but as I like to be bitten quite hard it does happen, does anyone else enjoy being bruised or is it something wrong? I'd love to know what you guys think! xx

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I love being bruised, the bigger the better I say.

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Liquidsugar wrote:

I love being bruised, the bigger the better I say.

I couldn't agree more!

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I had one on my neck... It wasn't a typical love bite mark , it was actually caused from being bit.. I wouldn't consider them wrong and when u see it again I enjoy the flashback from what caused it, I too enjoy being bit hard.. I don't think there is anything wrong with it or dirty... I bruise easily so it's just one of them things :) I also think it's wrong to be shouted at over it, it's ur body.. X

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MissNoir wrote:

Liquidsugar wrote:

I love being bruised, the bigger the better I say.

I couldn't agree more!

It's like a constant reminder of all the fun you've had!

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MiLfAnDmOnKeY wrote:

I had one on my neck... It wasn't a typical love bite mark , it was actually caused from being bit.. I wouldn't consider them wrong and when u see it again I enjoy the flashback from what caused it, I too enjoy being bit hard.. I don't think there is anything wrong with it or dirty... I bruise easily so it's just one of them things :) I also think it's wrong to be shouted at over it, it's ur body.. X

I understand why people may say something, after all many people get hurt in a relationship without consent. Hence why I don't flaunt mine, besides to those that understand my masochistic tendencies anyhow.

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Liquidsugar wrote:

MissNoir wrote:

Liquidsugar wrote:

I love being bruised, the bigger the better I say.

I couldn't agree more!

It's like a constant reminder of all the fun you've had!

Yes! I always smile at them, especially boob ones, takes me back to how they were made! ^_^

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MissNoir wrote:

Liquidsugar wrote:

MissNoir wrote:

Liquidsugar wrote:

I love being bruised, the bigger the better I say.

I couldn't agree more!

It's like a constant reminder of all the fun you've had!

Yes! I always smile at them, especially boob ones, takes me back to how they were made! ^_^

Bum ones are my favourite! It's annoying how hard I am to mark though!

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Ooohh My bigger bruises are on my bum, I'm quite sensitive, I used to have 4/5 bruises per leg, but they seem to have gotten a bit more resistent haha

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I wasn't actually flaunting it... It was on where my wind pipe is so couldn't actually cover it and wasn't a bad one thankfully so no one actually commented on it :) I can understand ur comment though on people in abusive relationships.

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Personally, I love the feeling when I'm getting them but I'm not a fan of the bruises left afterwards. If they're somewhere they wont be seen (boobs or butt) no problem and as you say, a nice reminder of fun times had but neck and shoulders I do my best to avoid. You shouldn't get shouted at for having them but personally I don't want my family and random people in the street knowing what I've been up to (has definitely happened a few times though!)

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I love seeing the physical reminder of what I've been up to, but only in certain places. I like to be able to control who sees them, and so if it's in a place that is hard to do that, not so keen!

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I love love being bruised and marked, echoing what Naughty Miss K has said, but as a submissive its like a physical reminder.

I guess i could also say its more deep rooted, as i love the used and abused feeling especially if we've been swinging and my partner has asked me to meet someone and the marks are from them (sounds completely warped i know).

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I haven't been hit bed enough to mark but I do often get love bites as does he. We often bite and suck eachothers necks fairly hard.
It's usually a laugh after to see what we have done lol.

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Hard enough not bed enough stupid Iphone

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I have a condition that makes me bruise easily, I have finger marks on my arm from helping an old lady find something at work. I'm not currently getting any action but when I do I'm guaranteed to bruise even if it's gentle. I don't think anyone would see a difference as bruises are my normal style.
I do like knowing that the bruises came from something good, but it can be difficult for me and my partner when I look like a battered girlfriend and move like an old lady. Maybe I should wear a sign that says disabled not abused?

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I love them. I had one on my neck once and my mum went ballistic and dropped out of meeting my OH. OH doesn't like it though, he doesn't want to damage me lol

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In my case, it mostly just happens in the heat of the moment. It doesn't hurt or anything and its mostly afterwards that I'm like "oh that is quite big".
I'm not really ashamed of them, yet I do tend to cover them up with make up as much as I can which is mostly due to my job.

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I love them too, the sensation of bruising the skin, to looking at them the day after and getting a naughry reminder from what happened turns me on! There easily hidden or made less noticeable with make up.

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I agree with what a lot of you are sayin ^_^ The majority of them are easily hidden & not in places that many people see, just the odd shoulder one. I feel it's my body & my sex life & if I'm comfortable beig bruised, which at first my OH wasn't keen in doing, then I don't see why it should upset anyone else as I ensure they can be hidden. Xx