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Hi, me and my husband are considering going to a sex club. We have done some research and discussed which one we would go to but after some more advice from people who have been. What sort of thing do you wear? Are they welcoming? What sort of thing should we expect? Is it likely you will have sexual encounters with others? Anything else we should know?

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There is quite a bit of information on the forum already about sex clubs

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I can also recommend you search up a few of the lifestyle people on YouTube who talk through going to clubs and even some of the clubs themselves might have introduction videos on the web.

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Thank you, I did look at these but most where a few years old so thought I’d start a new post :blush:

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Most clubs these days have websites which will have a dress code on them, as this can vary from club to club. Some have galleries so you can see what others have worn.

Most clubs are welcoming, quite a few swinging sites have clubs reviews on them so it might be worth checking one of those for the most up to date experiences

Each club will have its own vibe, some will be very social until the last few hours, others will have lots of action all night. As for sexual encounters with others, that depends on you and who else is in attendance. There will never be a requirement to join in with others, but it is possible you may be approached

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Definitely check out the club’s website for the dress code.

We always go smart. Smart casual if it’s a casual spa, i e no bar, or real social areas.

H will wear trousers and a shirt. I’ll wear something slightly revealing with a sexy lingerie set underneath.

The most important thing is to feel good in what you’re wearing.

You might spend a fair amount of time stood up chatting so wear shoes which look good but are comfortable. One evening my shoes were so bl##dy uncomfortable I couldn’t concentrate on the conversation :rofl:

Clubs can be cliquey, there is no denying it. Also, many people are nervous about starting a conversation with a stranger so be bold, introduce yourself and join the conversation. Or approach friendly looking people, explain it’s your first visit. People are always happy to chat about their time on the scene. I tend to give a compliment as an opener.

If there is a jacuzzi get in, the chat always flows easily there in our experience.

I can honestly say we have never felt pressured to play. If you don’t want to and are asked just say ‘we’re not playing tonight, just enjoying the social.’ No one will think anything of it.

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Flows… :joy::smirking_face:

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In our experience we have always discussed our boundaries and what our responses would be to different scenarios should they arise .it’s good to be both singing from the same song sheet so to speak and it gives reassurances to us both knowing what we both are prepared to do is what we both have agreed to beforehand.its like learning our lines and we think that it gives a sense of confidence and togetherness to any possible couples that we chat to.remember that no does means no and stick to it .we have noticed on a few occasions that l alot of people would be happy to let their partner take one for the team just so they can get what they want .that’s definitely not us.”playing” while there is not expected by most people attending and sometimes we just like the vibe and social side of being in a club.a lot of the time we just play together and like to be watched and watch others up close .it’s a turn on in itself for us

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Happy to help, been to a few! What kind of questions do you have!

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Has anyone vistited a sex club in the Netherlands?
The most popular one is Fun2Two.

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