Wasn't sure what to call this thread, so hopefully the title makes some sense!
I was talking with the OH at the weekend about how the kind of sex people start with when they first start having a sexual relationship has changed as time has gone on - and by time, I mean those who started in the 1970s, or the 1980s, etc through to those starting out at the current time, rather then peoples actual age.
Now this will not be the case for all, but 20-30 odd years ago, the different stages of getting to know a BF/GF seemed to go from touching, then masturbating each other and then intercourse but oral sex and anal-play was in no way such a 'given' activity as it seems to be now (in fact I think anal intercourse between a man and woman was illegal until very recently!)
There seems to be a much more 'explorative' range of activities that people starting out on their sex lives do now, which to my mind sounds so much more fun then the way it was back then.
I've got 20+ years of catching up! (and 20+ years of social conditioning to break through as well ;) )
We have a fair range of ages on this forum and wondering if our experiences as a couple (and as individuals) in their 40's is typical of other 40-somethings here or if I was just unlucky!
And to those in the 20's and late teens ... is what I wrote correct and times really have changed?