Last evening a couple in our group brought up the subject of sex boredom. It came as a shock to some of us but we know this is a reality after being married for a while.
For more than 20 years the 3 most sensitive parts of the woman body have became a routine in their foreplay. The blow jobs and the sex were repeated and "no longer" appealing or exciting. Although orgasm were not lost but the time spent together were a lot shorter.
Hub and I in our bed time discussed and we did find some of our areas a routine too, boredom and not exciting anymore. We have identified the areas. We need to rectify these areas but we are lost for solutions.
We need help and satisfactory answers from members who have overcame issue of sex boredom successfully. Can you share with me.
1) how long have you been together?
2) when did your problem started?
3) what were the problems?
4) how did you overcome them? (family counseling for example, or maybe cheating... Other areas)
Thanks in advance.