Past
- First of all, should have waited a few years first.
-Grow an obsession for the person I lost my virginity to, and I couldn't tell you if that was due to liking him (which I doubt) or if it was due to the enjoyment of sex.
- Had a number of one night stands with people I knew and did so many random things in front of friends, I have no idea why.
- Overall, pretty horrible.
Present
- Lots of new things; bondage, latex, sex toys, public sex (but not infront of public).
- FINALLY receiving oral and I can't get enough of it!!
- An amazing partner who seems to know what will please me more than I know myself, haha.
- Lots of experimenting.
- I'd say practically perfect, other than myself having a higher lubido than my partner.
Future
- I am serviously intersted in experiencing same sex play, whether it be 1 on 1 or a threesome.
- Going to more fetish/burlesque events.
- More bondage furniture and a super large mirror by the bed!
Present - been with my partner 19 years, and never knew sex could be this much fun, enjoying experimenting with Bdsm, spanking, restraints, dressing up, toys, anal play.
Future - more experimenting, don't knock it till you've tried it, that's what I say!!
Past: Very mixed. My early sexual experiences were traumatic and when I chose to lose my virginity I threw myself head first into anything and everything...lots of partners and pretty hardcore bdsm (I went in at the deep end). At times I also used sex as as a way to regulate my emotions or to self destruct. Then I had a long, pretty much completely vanilla, relationship.
Present: I'm enjoying being single and learning more about myself and my sexuality. I still have multiple partners, I'm still kinky and I'm still pushing my boundaries but I'm much more risk aware than I was in the past. I've accepted that kink (particularly masochism) is something I need and am not willing to compromise on. I feel much happier now I am not trying to suppress that part of me. I'm getting more involved in the kink community too.
Future: I want to keep exploring my sexuality and experimenting. Maybe at some point I'll consider having a relationship but I'm in no rush.
Past: Extreme vanilla to the point I would lay and think about decorating or what I was going to do tomorrow
Present: No vanilla please as at present am to wild for that sort of stuff, like dressing up, getting wet and wild. Bit of bondage with a sprinkle of kink
Future: Who knows what the future holds but as long as someone keeps the kink meter rising, I'm still dressing up and having wild times then here's to the future....want to make my FFM and some outdoor sex more of a feature and who else knows what fun will happen along the way
Past - Lost my virginity to the wrong guy, that was definitely a balls-up on my part.
Present - Me and my man are intimate and enjoying sex - thank you Lovehoney and Coco De Mer for the supplies of sensual massage candles, We-Vibe, lubes and bondage items :)
Future - Hoping that this will just keep going the way it is! Would like to possibly venture more into the bondage thing, or maybe look into threesomes as I'm bisexual :)