Sex or Masturbation

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The other day after a mutual session we were chatting of how much more masturbating we do (solo and mutual) over physical sex these days
And was wondering about others in our situation

We are both in our mid 50s and mutual masturbation is a much bigger part of our sex life than physical sex, we do still very much enjoy sex especially doggystyle but mutual masturbation is our favorite sexual pleasure together, is it just our age

Whats your age/ages and what to you have/do more of as a couple or a single person

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My wife and I are both mid 70’s, and with her low libido these days we probably have sex once a week, and I will masturbate a couple times besides that. We do not mutually masturbate though, never has been part of our play.

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Me and Mrs bustywife masterbate alone and together, we have sex every day, oral and penetration, although oral more these days as mrs will have more orgasms that way. We’re both in out 50s too

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Oral is my OH best route to orgasm. And I absolutely love doing it.

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Me and Mrs bustywife love giving and receiving oral

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What’s not to like about that ? I don’t get that some folks don’t like giving or receiving it. Such a selfless act and so erotic.

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Exactly I make it about mrs bustywifes pleasure. I love her moans and sighs as she reaches orgasm. She can make me cum after she’s had a couple of orgasms, she loves it when I cum in her mouth with my cock between her tits

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All sounds great, always good to cum second after providing a whole load of pleasure and cum in mouth with cock between tits - epic

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We agree in our house its ladies first always

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Totally right

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Mrs bustywife doesnt always think it should be that way,

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I prefer to cum second, post nut and all that

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Im the same mrs first

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Some months ago we had a dry spell, it wasn’t a lack of desire for one another but stress and fatigue. Simply put, we were both too tired for “full” sex.

Mutual masturbation saw us through that, and yes, we both also love giving one another oral. However, sometimes (like yesterday) we have sex after our “initial” orgasms; it lasts longer and it feels more connected because neither of us is in a rush to get off.

Do we prefer tha? Hell yes! Both of us love feeling connected.

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My wife and I love masturbating together either with or without toys. We often share our Lovense Domi 2 and edging each other. We’re about 50/50 though and enjoy PIV as well. I’m craving her to peg me and have the equipment ready to go but that’s still yet to happen. The dildos are purely solo fun atm :smiling_face_with_tear:

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Welcome to the forum @Derek061 I too am hoping for the pegging experience from my OH. We are getting there

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We only ever have mutual masturbation nowadays (both just 70). Once piv sex became uncomfortable for my OH, it just led to more and more mutual masturbation sessions.
It’s now lingerie, toys talking dirty, porn and the best sex we’ve ever had :heart_on_fire::heart_on_fire:

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Would say it’s got to be masterbation, it’s been months without sex so am use to masterbation. You can went your feeling very horny

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Mutual masturbation can be as hot as regular intercourse if you’re both into it. Watching and helping our partners achieving orgasms is very exciting
So happy you found ways to stay sexually active together.

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When I was single it was masturbating loads, sex was only when I could fund a prostitute. Now wanking is low and sex is high as we do it daily whenever we’re together. Couple of times a day

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