Hey everyone, sorry I’ve not been very active on here for a while. Hope everyone is all doing good 
I was just wondering and have been pondering with my partner about sex parties. Does anyone know how you go about finding such things and have any info on them? Is it something you have to participate in with others whilst there or are you just free to do you’re own thing with each other? Any info anyone would have would be really helpful 
An ungodly amount of things to factor into something like that. Try looking at local fet groups. See what goes on in your community. I will say you may also have to travel depending on the area because it’s by no means as common an occurrence as you might think.
Thank you. Would probably prefer to travel anyway so less change of bumping into anyone familiar
No I haven’t got an idea to start
I can understand that. I once knew somebody who bumped into their mother at a kink club. Terrifying prospect. Think as you’d expect with anything in the UK the most organized and established places would be London, Birmingham and Manc. But definitely try seeing what’s around where you are on fet because word of mouth will have more swing where people are more experienced in your local scene there.
Quite awkward for all involved I’d imagine 
I’m looking at Manchester area really 
My suggestion is try sites like Fabswingers. They lost clubs that good such parties, and there is a community out there that do sometimes hold parties - never been to one, but been to a couple of clubs.
It’s a good place to start, but as single bloke, you are competing in a very crowded market!
R x
@MK7 lol I can the awareness of someone’s parent being at a sex party and on the other hand the person wouldn’t of been there if their parents didn’t have sex lol
Hey 
nice to see you back @SteelA1
There are swingers clubs put there. Might be worth looking to see where the ones near you are. Also seconding the suggestion of fabswingers
Hey it’s ok, hope you’ve been well 
think sex parties are the sort of thing you have to be in the know about in order to find them as they tend not to be widely advertised lol
Not sure if there’s any specific sites for this… 
@Rachel_sometimes hey, I’m not actually single anymore I’m coming up short on my findings unfortunately though!
@Green_Eyed_Girl hi, nice to be back! I’m going to try be a little more active on here again now
@AJSTAR hey mate. I didn’t think they would be advertised really I’m falling short on finding anything about them really though, even on fabswingers! I won’t be deterred though! Hope you’re all doing good
Hi mate @SteelA1 nice to see you back and your never classed as coming up short lol
@Gazza_64 thanks mate! Just meant coming up short with my search on the topic at hand though really it’s good to hear that anyway
Hope you’re well mate and everything is good with the family and work etc
Yea all good thanks mate got sorted with a transport compliance company so getting trained and understanding new sector all good mate nice to hear from you mate @SteelA1
Good stuff mate, is that within the same company you were at or somewhere completely different?
A new start in a different company mate never go backwards look forward and move in that direction is my motto ! @SteelA1
Lol yeah sex parties are pretty underground when organised and you need be in the know to get in on them or have a contact of someone who’s done them sort of thing… but thinking on it last night I’d maybe suggest you’d find a better way through looking into erotic bathhouses and steam rooms as I know there are them sort of places where all sorts happen openly 
Also thank you for asking dude, I’m doing pretty well thank you 
the best thing to do is type in “swingers clubs” in your area on your comp something will come up (apart from your cock lol) but be very careful, you need to ensure that what is on offer is what you really want, we used to participate quite a lot a few years ago and met some great people as well as some real wierdos, we are lucky were we live as there are some great beaches with sand dunes where a lot of our sort of people visit in the warmer months, best of luck and remember to always wear protection.
We are interested in visiting a club. We have done some research and they are quite relaxed with no pressure to swap or take part. For us it has been a fantasy for a long time and something we have talked about. We are looking at clubs with a jacuzzi, pool and sauna areas.
We like idea of sitting chatting in a jacuzzi, people watching and chatting with other couples. There are different areas in most clubs to suit what you are looking for and private rooms if you want to be alone.