Sex Positive Kink Parties... Good Mix or Not?

A friend is hosting a sex positive kink party, which is just code for Swingers party. I’ve always been a little against it. I was asked to do a spanking booth, but I’ve never gotten anything from watching people have sex.

But curious what this group might think.

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Not something we are into and i would just be to embarrassed to watch other couples at it.

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I would go to something like this but would never be able to get the wife to. I’d like to set back and watch others to start, and would probably enjoy others watching us. I know I’d get turned on knowing others were checking out my wife’s body.

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Back in my college days…was all over going to parties where people were openly hooking up. And have even been involved in sex positive paries. Just not a fan of mixing the two because so many inexperienced people attend wanting to try and hit people with things…it’s asking for trouble in my mind. I haven’t said no yet because…well, butts to spank.. But I’ still want to be comfortable.

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From my own experience, I much prefer plaxes where the focus is on kink than on sex. Kink places are about fun, sex places are about fu-…

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If it wasn’t for the fact they want a spanking booth my feelings are pretty much the same.

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If you know it’s really just a swingers party and it’s not your thing. You have a few options

  • Don’t go
  • Set a time for your demonstration and only attend then
  • Go but seeing as consenting is everything just say no if people offer extra.

I use to do the catering and games for weekend parties for a large group in my home town there was lots of sex and demonstrations. I said no to many offers of move while I was working, but did at least have some fun when setting up the games and demonstrations. The choice is really up to you

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Then set it up as an afternoon of fun but informative training a class for all interested. Like a tantric class but for paddles and alike.

At the end of the class people get a certificate or a sticky badge that says “I’m Spanky trained”

You control the narrative and you also control the toys.
Teach them right and be on call

I did that for cunnilingus classes, tantra & massage and BDSM.

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Yeah, there’s room in an outside area for me to do the spanking booth. So probably going to go and then leave early. He only asked for 2 hours.

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Not my thing. I don’t want people to see me doing it, watch other’s doing it, or share my partner. But I DO want to know what a spanking booth is. Is it like a kissing booth but for spanks?

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It is very much like a kissing booth only people’s butts will be bing kissed by my hand paddle or flogger.

It’s really for people to come by and get a short spanking or for any ladies who want to bend me over a spanking to learn how it’s done.

It’s like a tasting booth.

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That sounds fun actually.

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It really is. Harmless and playful. And hey, someone always finds out they like it and want to do more. It’s like speed pick-up play.

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Liking spanking? Why would anyone like that? :face_with_hand_over_mouth::winking_face_with_tongue:

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I could answer that…but…behaving here.

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There’s a first for everything :squinting_face_with_tongue:

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Heyyyyyyy I resmb…I mean resent that remark! I behave all the time!

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I need better friends! So, arrived at the party, set up and was active almost from the start, but not the way I expected. The first 6 women who came to the booth said they wanted to learn to spank men so I ended up getting spanked, which I thought was wierd particularly since they all seemed a bit too “practiced” until I saw my friend smiling a few feet away after my last “lesson”.

Then I knew something was up. She walked over laughing and admitted she had set everything up. I told her I owed her one and it wasn’t going to be a light one. In any case it was lively 2 hrs that I gave out a bunch of Taster spankings. The rule was they couldn’t be more than 1 minute. And the ladies were definatley in for the full minute.

It was fun but I left as soon as my time was up.

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Where was the consent and so sorry for you @Spanky

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@JGood It wasn’t a bad thing really. A prank between friends and the setup for the spanking booth was people could ask to be spanked or ask to spank.So the consent was implied, but the level of spanks had to be negotiated and consented to.

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