I am thinking about buying my first sex toy. I am quite sexually experienced but I dont masturbate, as it doesnt get me anywhere. I dont get off on clitoral stimulation and see to be g spot orientated. I am allergic to latex, and most lubricants. I have children so need something very quiet that I can keep in my drawer. My sex life is not particuarly active and my other half is very traditional with his sexual taste, to the point where I am embarassed to tell him i would like to use a sex toy, as we dont have an active sex life in particular.
Any suggestions? Many Thanks
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Have a look at glass dildos and vibrators. They can look really pretty, you wouldn't necesarily know they were sex toys and you wouldn't have to worry about alergic reactions. Maybe start with something smallish.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=glass+vibrators
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=glass+dildo
I was a bit wary of them until I got one in a randon grab bag a few weeks ago, now it's one of my favorites. Here's a thread about them
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/321397-glass-dildos/
Well first off, it may sound bad, but you could buy some nightwear or something and say you got a free bullet or cock ring. Something you can use with your OH... This way you don't have to tell him you wanted a sex toy, you can just get a starter one and say "it's worth a go, since it was free". A litle white lie, I know, but it can't hurt anyone!
Once you have integrated him to the world of sex toys and shown him it isn't all so bad (maybe you could buy something for him too? A cock ring or sleeve or something?) you could try a G-spot vibrator such as
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16891 or http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12340. The first is very quiet compared to other vibrators, the second is also quiet, but has more ticklers and functions for inside pleasure, however it is a little girthier, so unless you think you can "take it" so to speak...
If you want to give clitoral stimulation a go as well, you could try this; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15336 which gives both!
Either way I also recommend buying some good lubricant if you don't have any already! It really helps to get things started. I personally love liquid silk for my toy use; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163.
And the best part of all these things? No latex!
Anyway I hope you find something you like! Oh and welcome to the forums! x