My hubby has always said the he loves to see me playing with toys and that knowing that I use toys and masturbate in general is the biggest turn on for him. We got together in college and I’d been using a vibrator a little while before we met, which I told him about one time when he asked, so he has always known I love to use toys.
I’ve been a Hitachi wand user for many years now which he knows I use very regularly and anytime of day for a quick orgasm so he is very happy to watch any hear about this.
@rockstar a couple of decades ago we used to do this and I loved it. Thanks for the reminder it feels so nice to play but have your partner sheltering you, it felt soo soothing and erotic. I’m going to suggest this soon.
@luscious_laura I just purchased the Hitachi a few months ago and I really enjoy it. My meds make it difficult to orgasm quickly and this toy definitely gets it done quickest. I’m glad I am exploring toys because it definitely enhances our time together. That’s wonderful you started your sex life so well.
I love watching my wife using her rabbit . After shes cum a few times , she allows me to enter her . It feels like she’s had other men up there , and when she’s in a very kinky mood , she tells me to hurry , because she’s got a couple more “clients” waiting !!!
That causes me to explode lol !!!
From threads in here, a lot of times when men buy toys their partners don’t use them and its a bone of contention. Thats because some men buy toys that they want to see their partners use, rather than toys that their partners actually want to use. They’re not always the same thing
You are spot on there @JoCat I’ve made that mistake on a few occasions. Its got to be the wife’s decision. She just feels i’m pressurising her if I purchase something.
Thats exactly it @steve19, I see threads where people are saying they’ve bought X and Y and I think well I wouldn’t like those toys either and I wouldn’t use them. Same with lingerie.
Toys and lingerie are too personal, unless you’re buying with your opinion excluded, then it’s not going to go down well. It’s no different than buying a birthday or Christmas pressie, you buy what you know they’ll like
I’ve bought all my own toys. My partner wouldn’t buy me toys as he knows there expensive and if I didn’t enjoy it then it would be a waste of money. I pick the toys out and leave it to surprise him with.
I’ve bought all of our toys and really enjoy looking on the website for new toys and ideas. I actively tell the oh that it turns me on knowing that she plays with her self and I love to watch her do it.
Oh I love looking at all the toys, I’m very curious and select quite a variety to experiment so that we enhance our sex life, I completely understand. I think it depends on personality type? As long as your partner is flexible and wants to participate I don’t see a problem. If its mostly no goes then I’d switch tactics I think the anticipation and build up is soo important, at least for myself because I find it very arousing and a definite aid in our time together
He’s always loved to watch me masturbate and use toys and encouraged me to do so. I was shy about masturbating when we first got together, we were both 18, so up to that point masturbating had been something done in secret for me. I’d wanted one for a while but told him I would like to try a vibrator and we chose my first one together and I / we have bought many more since!
If he is home I will tell him if I want to use a toy or sometimes just let him find me having my own little fun and time on my own.
Good for you! I like to tell my hubby I’m using a toy by myself occasionally and I’ll also not. Buying toys is one of the ways I enjoy increasing my libido because I can be very imaginative
It’s a massive turn on for me and so hot to see her using her toys on herself. I love to see her orgasm and the look of pure pleasure on her face when she cums with her wand vibrator is amazing to see.
She will use her vibrator at some stage most days if she has time and has said that can’t go too long without it now!
I just love you have become totally comfortable with hubby aware you are masterbating and you are comfortable with him watching you. It’s is such a turn on. @steph_mike
I love watching my OH using her toys on herself sometimes she tells me she is going to play and tells me I’m welcome to watch but I’m not allowed to disturb and sometimes I accidentally catch her but she just usually carries on and if I do catch her she normally starts dirty talking and that really turns me on
it feels so nice to play but have your partner sheltering you, it felt soo soothing and erotic. I’m going to suggest this soon.
and benefactor of my explorations.
I think the anticipation and build up is soo important, at least for myself because I find it very arousing and a definite aid in our time together 
and I’ll also not. Buying toys is one of the ways I enjoy increasing my libido because I can be very imaginative