@Richy ohh I totally get it. However I typically love the feeling of having something inside of me because of the fullness, its more satisfying. Like with a rabbit or two separate toys
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@carzy its such a fabulous feeling when you are both in sync with the flow of passion 
between two people
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@Likeable I think its wonderful when we know what turns our OH on and use it.
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@Cplnorm personally I love using combination of toys or changes in positions to keep things flowing 
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Absolutely, even better when using more than one toy at a time.
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Hubby doesn’t like it at all.
I’m a clit girl so womanizer is my go to.
I don’t play when he’s home, or in our bed, as it causes way too many arguments.
So it’s a no from us.
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@Justthetwoofus2007 yeah, I never see the point of starting fights about it. My husband knows I masturbate and its not an issue, I typically orgasm quickly and well when I masturbate, always with toys. I love sex with my husband because it feels so good and builds our relationship. I’m a clit girl too, but I sometimes crave something inside of me when I use a clit toy, rabbit’s are okay but nothing amazing for me, but then again I don’t use them alot 
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My hubby is very old fashioned even tho I web cam for a job.
He doesn’t like women touching themselves, and honestly I find it to painful now to try.
I sort myself out, very lucky I have an office, with a lock, so I can hide away and he’s none the wiser.
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My friend tells me that, they maybe have sex every few months. Her OH is 64 I think and she’s 55. He has ED pretty severely and even went to a specialist. I think if this happened to my hubby he would be a miserable sob. But I think this happens when you don’t have piv as you get older and its the adage if you don’t use it, you lose it, I even did reading on this, if your vagina doesn’t get worked, its a muscle and it atrophies due to lack of use. I realized that makes sense, its probably why I think kegel balls help so much.
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The sounds my partner makes are so erotic, I love to watch and more so listen.
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What a shame @Justthetwoofus2007
He’s missing out on something wonderful - but each to their own!
So strange - if I watch porn, I basically only look at voluptuous ladies self pleasuring.
I hate all that jackhammering stuff!
Usually when my wife and I make love, I will end up inside her, PIV, while she sensually uses a wand or something.
I find the combination of being inside her, while she is also in charge of her pleasure, and the visual side of that, so extraordinarily sexy that it blows my mind!
maybe one day he will see the light 
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@Stuck_nomore - my wife loves to have me inside her while she uses toys.
We have a position where I stack up pillows behind me and she is at the headboard end of the bed, so we are both facing each other. Very little movement creates a lot of pleasure and then she can play to her hearts content with a wand or pebble.
It’s very sexy! Feels amazing for both of us!
It’s worth a try 
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@Stuck_nomore … that is exactly the right attitude. Why should something that is there to be enjoyed , be ignored or left unused.!!
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@SpicyGinger . Im with your hubby… watching my wife pleasure herself is one of lifes great pleasures in its self.!!
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@Stuck_nomore . Surprise him and have him find you gong for it with your favorite toy… if he looks shocked, tell him to get his kit off and join you.
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I haven’t outright asked him but he was the one to introduce me to toys so I assume he enjoys it. I’ve only just started bringing them in to sessions and work up the confidence to use them for myself in front of him.
I still prefer using them on each other though so we are still actively partaking in each other’s pleasure… still early days for us though, I read some of the posts on here and it amazes me the beautiful confidence they have in themselves around their partners. It really inspires me
I think it’s important to hear the other person and respect what they do and don’t like. But then open up a gentle conversation about why they don’t like it, if anything so you fully understand them and don’t start resenting them. You never know it might be something that can be overcome with a good heart to heart and some tweaks to how things go down.
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@mrssaffa . Life is too short to beat about the bush ( no pun intended).
An outpouring of mutual likes and wishes is like opening floodgates to mutual fulfillment.
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Oh my its the best 
we we don’t spend much time together with toys but I know they enhance my enjoyment at times @Iwill
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Oh yes, yes, yes. I love watching her and listening to her.
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Most of the time I’m not allowed to orgasm but my (and her) favourite position is for me to sit with my back against the headboard and for her so sit between my legs, facing away from me and lay back so that her head is on my chest.
I hug and cuddle her while she uses one of her toys on her clitoris and, if she wishes, I can stimulate her breasts or nipples or lay my hands on hers as she uses the toys. She really loves me holding her hands as she uses the toys.
In this position she can come time after time.
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