Sexless relationship

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Hi everyone,
My name is John and I am 63. I have been in a sexless marriage for many years. I am slightly bi and enjoy friendly erotic games and contests. I have used escorts and there are some lovely people , a number are ma/phd graduates ladies who are business orientated and a lot of fun.
I have done 3 and 4 sums , but it is an expensive hobby.
I have tried to find other people but sadly most people like to dream rather than do anything.
Anyway hope to chat with some people

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Hi @jwills5000 :wave:
Welcome to the forum!

Personal question, and please feel free not to answer if you’d rather not, are you in a sexless marriage due to medical restrictions that your wife has or because of some other reasons? If the former, does she know about the escorts?

Assuming it’s a situation you are both happy with then nothing wrong with it as a hobby. Nope, not cheap, and I imagine the best escorts can charge rather more… but then, I have a horse and he’s an expensive hobby too! :rofl: If you have the disposable income to spend, spend it on what makes you happy.

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Hello and welcome to the forum. :wave:

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Hi and welcome to the forum. I am also in a nearly sexless marriage, due to my ED and wife’s medical issues. However we love each other through and through and life is great. I would never go with escort but can understand why. Hope more discussion in the future.

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Hi and Welcome to the Forum.You will certainly find lots of interesting people and subjects on here to chat about.As well as being informative peoples posts on here about their adventures and fantasises can be a real inspiration. Edited by mod

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@jwills5000 Hello and welcome to the forums . I myself have been in a sexless marriage for a couple decades . Medical issues for her . She told me I could have side ladies , she just did not want to know about them . Never have . She also suggested I fly to Nevada where I could legally hire sexual fun . Only two things stop me is money and after not having any for so long I might cum before I even get started . " Thank you , that will be $1,500 " . So I have mastered pleasing myself , with the help of people on the forums teaching me of all sorts of fun things for self pleasure . BTW , I am 65 .

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Mainly medical on her part. Discussion is not an option .I enjoy the company of intelligent woman who are open minded but safe. I also love seeing other women enjoying themselves , it is just a lot of silly fun .There is no emotional attachment, so I suppose I view it as a bit like playing tennis. I have put my life into compartments. It is still very difficult to deal with.

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Greetings and Welcome @jwills5000 :sunglasses:

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Hello and welcome to the forum.

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Hi :wave:t2: and welcome.

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Helloooo

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Hello @jwills5000 you’ll find lots of understanding on here. Welcome to the forum :wink:

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G’day and welcome.

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Many thanks

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Thanks, very kind of you

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Thanks, seeing a lot of ads for Qantas/Australia on tv
G.day Mate

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Thank you

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Hi
There are so many people who dream and never do anything. Sometimes that is the right thing to do. Why reck your solid relationship for a stupid one night stand even if all agreed.
I suppose it is satisfying in a way to turn dreams into reality

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Helllloooo to you too​:grin:

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Welcome to the forum sir! I defo know what you mean about people would rather dream than do things… I’ve been stuck in the dating sinkhole and it’s like no one wants to meet or be genuine half the time