We are looking for some suggestions to help us with some exploring and trying some new sexual experiences within our relationship but need a start point. Anyone got any lists or must try experiences? Even better any games that helped you with trying and finding some new favourite activities?
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I like tying my boyfriend to a chair legs and arm, then getting a Fleshlight it can be automatic or manual doesn’t matter and edging him for hours. Real fun for both.
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Hard to comment… Not sure what youve done so far…
Me and OH have taken to masturbating in front of each other recently. Me more than her… but its a real turn on.
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Have you tried the Spicer app?
Also read through “when did you last have sex” thread and the other regularly contributed to threads for ideas. Lots of things pop up that you might not have tried. 
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I’ve got no lists or suggestions but I wish you luck and welcome to the forum.
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Uncovering Intimacy has a Sexploration List in their shop that you might find helpful. We purchased it, and I can honestly say that I was impressed by the number of things that my husband and I learned that we might be into! It’s pretty lengthy, like 25 pages. Here’s the link: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/our-sexploration-list/
They are also in the process of developing an app that will feature the Sexploration List. Hopefully that will be out soon. Hope this helps!
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I’m a big fan of being a dominant in the bedroom with role reversal and pegging my man and lots of oral including face sitting 
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Seeing as I have t mentioned it for a while can I just recommend the spicer app 
. I’ve told so many of my friends about this forum and that app and all of them are thoroughly enjoying both!
The openness of this forum and the new things that app lets you find out about each other and try out 
give it a go you won’t be disappointed
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Hands down, best board game I ever played that helped grow our sexual appetite and curiosity was Bedroom Battle. Its just a well made game that encourages curiosity and makes suggestions and options. Other than a lot of the in-house games LH makes, I haven’t seen anything out there with even remotely the same level of game design for a sex board game. Oral Fun is also pretty awesome
As for must try experiences here is some ideas:
-Blindfolds+ headphones/earbuds with music. Set the tone of the sex by altering the music
– add some sensation play to this for fun: maybe massages, or some light bdsm like restraints and crops/whips/paddles/pinwheels.
-role play. If this feels weird for you try something simple, you don’t have to make completely random characters, they can just be yourselves with a slightly different lens.
-pegging. Honestly its just fun to explore anal play
-any sex board game. Even though I love the bedroom battle games from above, one of the things we love doing is just buying random sex board games, or finding some online or sexy rules to normal games and just having a fun date night that way. Worst case scenario its boring and you laugh about it and have sex after. Best case scenario you have an unforgettable fun sex date.
-try finding a neat restraint or positioning wedge or restraint. Its fun trying to change things up by trying new positions. We got a spreader bar a few months ago and its been fun playing with that. Ditto for an over the door set or some wedge cushions. Sex in different positions is always fun.
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We’re enjoying me being dressed in her lingerie (I enjoy it the most ) while we masturbate together.
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My OH had a phase of making up sexy stories while we played with each other - really fun!
Also - sex while you are sober, with the lights on, looking into each others eyes - is just a massive turn on for me (us)
We have been lucky enough to test some toys for LH and it’s changed the way we use toys now - it’s much more fun approaching it as a project and to review a toy!
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As part of sexploratio in the past we have each written down a range of new and existing fantasies/acts we would like to explore or try.
We then mixed them up in a bowl and pick one out on occasion when we were both in the mood to explore. Picking one at random increased the surprise and excitement adding a fun playful element.
Good luck and enjoy your exploration journey 
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You can play any game… As long as the loser has to do what you say.
Me and OH had the place to ourselves at xmas and despite knowing exactly whats underneath our clothes we played strip Rummy. When we were both naked we fucked on the floor and sofas.
Wouldnt suggest Monopoly… Takes too long !!!
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I don’t know if this counts but my partner and I are looking in to getting This as I would like to try penetrating a partner but he is not quite ready for that 
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