Hi everyone I asked a question here recently & I found everyone to be really welcoming & helpful so thank you so much, hope it’s ok to ask another question.
I’ve been sexting with a guy I connected with online, we haven’t met in person yet & as I said before I’m quite inexperienced sexually but i’m trying to figure out what turns men on in regards to sending videos & photos? i know every man is different but is there any common factor? he seems to like videos of me touching myself down there & saying how wet I am, is that because I said to him I always imagine it’s him touching me & how turned on i get? or do all men just get off on a woman touching herself? I guess it would be nice to send a surprise video that blows his socks off so to speak lol
Men tend to be more visual than women, so pictures and videos of you touching yourself or naked would generally turn on most men.
If you want to blow his socks off, then tease, start fully clothed and slowly and seductively strip. Playing with yourself over your underwear initially will get him all hot and bothered.
Then as you get turned on remove your underwear and show yourself in all your glory.
I agree with the above statement, we are definitely visual, and for me personally i would like it if someone did something completely different, like all women get bored with a dick pic from a guy, I’d like to see something that will make me say wow, and even better if it was done when I wasn’t expecting it
thanks @DLJL 
thanks @ToysRusDevon 
A bit like my response to your other post … I wouldn’t spend too much time agonising over what you ‘should’ do. What do you WANT to do?
I’m not saying it’s not awesome that you want to blow his socks off … but the bar honestly isn’t that high. If he’s into you, then he’ll appreciate/get turned on by probably pretty much anything.
It’s totally aok that you’re a bit unsure and asking here for advice/pointers. But don’t stress yourself out over whether you’re doing the ‘right thing’. I’d say be careful though … too many stories out there of people who’ve sent pics/vids, only for it to come back and haunt them.
Being smart is just as sexy as being naked. 
thanks @Lucas04 i totally agree about being careful with images too, i never have my face in them for that reason
@blondsuzi Nice one. Hope I wasn’t being patronising. Just have fun with it 
Surprises are the best!! Especially in lingerie
@Lucas04 no you weren’t being patronising at all! i really appreciate all the advise
@TomThomas a video in lingerie then stripping off or just stay in the lingerie?
Both 
I love both hands free too
@TomThomas how do i do it hands free? sorry if i’m missing something obvious lol
Put the phone down somewhere to record you without holding the button
@TomThomas oh of course! sorry that was a bit silly of me!
Sensing confidence is also so hot!! Like me for if I am at work and I got a video make me go crazy @blondsuzi
@blondsuzi as per the above do what you want, my Oh sends me pictures I could show my mum and are very tame. Its the context that makes it.
Although not legally once you press send you lose who else gets to see it!
If its your choice then enjoy but I would be careful of including any images that can identify you.
Everyone has already given amazing advice so I don’t have an awful lot to add. But sometimes videos and pictures of you being naked and touching yourself etc should be the big finale.
Iv always found I get really turned on and excited by images which are more of a tease, maybe a body shot of what you’re wearing with the caption “I’m not wearing anything under this”. Teasing and building up will provoke a lot more interest as typically men will want to have a wank as soon as things get heated, if you show something super explicit straight away, your jumping several steps 
. Also with sexting I know myself and friends have said that our partners saying something like “I’m really wet, what would you do to me?” Is a super fun and exciting starter, it will get the other person thinking of all the stuff they want to do and can do. It will also hopefully be a good way to find out what they are into.
On the line of some of the above posts do a series of pics,say one every 20 minutes starting off fully dressed and then doing a striptease.Worked for me when the wife did it when we first started dating and it still does now especially if the pics are taken somewhere different than home.