Sexual Goals

I really don’t understand the fascination with squirting.
Is it much more pleasurable for a female?
People are always talking about it but I don’t really hear that’s it particularly a better experience.
I’m not being facetious. I’m genuinely curious.
I just always thought that a massive advantage for the female orgasm is the lack of messy fluid!
:blush:

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It doesn’t increase my pleasure, my orgasm comes first and then if I keep the stimulation going, then I squirt.

The prolonged stimulation is pleasurable but the squirting itself doesn’t do anything for me.

And the prolonged stimulation will make me sensitive, so unless I’ve had a few orgasms in the build up then after I squirt, I can’t be touched.

When someone knows your body well enough to give you maximum pleasure without squirting being the goal, that is massively erotic for me.

A guy I was with was desperate for me to squirt and that was his goal every time we had sex. So, of course I never did. Its like fight club, if you want it to happen, don’t talk about it because talking about it is pressure. For me.

I get much more pleasure peeing on my partner in bed (with a waterproof sheet on). Lying on each other, kissing and stroking while we pee is intimacy on another level. Then rolling around in it, licking it from each others skin and that turning us feral, well that was quite the experience :wink:

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@our-adventure-bed, my wife squirts but not like you see in porn. When she orgasms she gets very wet to the point it actually gushes out. Forty years ago we never heard of squirting or female ejaculation. For me as a man, it’s just a turn on whether giving oral or penetration. Sometimes she gushes quite a bit and sometimes not. She does say it does not make her orgasm any more intense. She was very self conscious about it early in our relationship but no longer. I always told her it is just who you are and it’s ok. We are very sexual and open and I personally enjoy it, now she is not so self conscious, we just deal with it and try as best we can to not make such a mess.

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Next one is a solo one for me which involves peeing on myself whilst masturbating. Never done it before but seem a few videos and looks pretty fun.

That sounds like it’ll take some serious mind work!

That and some preparation too and to not cause too much of a mess. Also I’m no where near as flexible too so might have to work on my core :rofl::rofl:

Thats a lot of work :rofl:

I pretty much have the exact same fantasy but like you said, so unrealistic. I mean how do you even go about starting to organize such an event to play out…. So jealous of these porn stars who just have the whole thing organized for them.

So yeah unfortunately can’t see it becoming reality.

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  • Being able to take by the biggest buttplug I currently have which is 10.25 in circumference.
  • exploring my bi side would love to having a real cock in my mouth and ass
  • do some depth training so I am able to take dildos and probably my wifes fist deeper up my ass, would love to see her hand and arm disappear almost upto her elbow in my ass.