Sexual inexperience

I am male, 57 and have only a small amount of sexual experience.

My last sexual relationship was about 15 years ago, which lasted about a year.

I am very kinky though, having much more experience in the BDSM world as a submissive to older women.

A question for the females…Would you definitely be put offca relationship with a guy who does not have much sexual experience for his age?

Absolutely not - age is just a number. What I wouldn’t want is a man who doesn’t know what a clitoris is and doesn’t care about learning how to pleasure a woman :smiling_face:

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My husband has has four sexual partners, including me, a virgin when we met and a total newbie, who is now apparently the kinkiest of them all :face_with_hand_over_mouth: we’ve been together 18 years. Does that answer your question?

Nothing strengthens a relationship like learning and growing together :blush:

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No, not at all. As long as I liked the person, their sexual experience wouldn’t bother me. I would be more interested in their openness to communication, trying new things and learning together.

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Ooh!

Thank you very much for your honest replies.

I feel reassured.

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As others have said, absolutely not. It’s fun to learn together and as long as you’re both open to communication, new ideas and feedback, it’s all good.

It wouldn’t put me off, as long as theres great communication and willingness to experiment, then I’d be grand. We’d need to have matching kinks, too.

That would be my requirement for someone with experience too.

No, not at all, i personally would feel more at ease that i wasnt expected to perform but more learn together.

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Thank you also, to the recent respondents.

I’m 51 F with a pretty small amount of experience. I think I’d like to be with someone who wants to explore, rather than someone who thinks they know it all.

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Your replies have made me feel much better and more confident about finding another partner.

Thank you.

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I ofen think I am one in a million, having as little sexual inexperience as I have for my sge.

I guess I listened toi much to people in the past, boasting about how much they have had etc.

I am starting to worry about this again.

I personally wouldn’t worry about past experience (or lack there of,) in the slightest.

The most important thing is developing trust, and caring for each other. Then being able to openly discuss what you’d like to do to/with each other.

Learning and exploring together is an amazing way to have fun, and deepen your connection. Plus, every sexual connection is unique, our bodies are unique so in reality every new partner presents a new and interesting learning experience. :beating_heart:

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Totally agree,excellant comment Apollo S!

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As what @ApolloSwallow has said don’t worry, also the fun is experiencing it again with a new person and if they love you inexperience won’t matter at all.

Just talk about things and be open and everything will be ok. and one main thing have fun with each other and have a laugh about it all​:slightly_smiling_face:

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