Sexual Relationship Building

I’ve got this friend that I’ve known for a while now, and we’ve both admitted to wanting to be in an intimate relationship, but she’s currently doing college stuff and I’m stuck at home still without a driver’s license, so we can’t make the commute to work towards sexual status.

Should I attempt to initiate a face time call for a masturbation session, or just leave it alone until we’re both able to work at this?

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@Gerry05 Absolutely try, I’m old fashioned in my ways lol but if it was me it would be letter writing first, can never beat a good love letter, then as things progress a bit of face time, posting things through the post, and then see how it goes from there, nothing to loose but everything to gain.

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There’s a saying where I am from - shy bairns get nowt.

Think that applies here

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The is no harm in suggesting it, they can only say no.

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Except here’s the thing, she’s been away for about a year, and I only got to get know her for about 3 semesters of high school. So I’m not sure whether or not this is overstepping any boundaries.

Thw face time thing sounds very weird for starting out.

Have to tried sextexting and then small progression to a pic etc?

Personally I would leave it until you could meet up together.

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@Gerry05…id just keep the communication going, you can make you feelings known gradually as your relationship builds. I wouldnt dive right in with a suggestion to knock one out on a facetime call…. What’s your gut feeling about her thoughts ?

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Well my judgment is constantly clouded by depression and autism. So I got no clue…

Maybe hint flirtatiously about it to her and see what she things on it :slightly_smiling_face:

@Gerry05…If that is the case, Err on the side of caution.

Some times taking your time about things can pay dividends.

Yeah alright.