We discussed making a sexy bucket list over the weekend and thought that LH friends might want to contribute resulting in a bigger sexy list. I’ll start with my husband wanting me to use a urethra sound tube on him whilst masturbating. He is getting kinkier so I think a bucket list will provide many new things to try. Over to you lot got kinky ideas!
Pegging is on my bucket list... hopefully this year
Trying a fucking machine and a Sybian style machine are the only things really on my bucket list.
Watching as my wife is fucked by another man or seduced by a female
i would then clean up afterwards
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Sorry to ask but what is pegging?
Colin-dog wrote:
Sorry to ask but what is pegging?
It's where a strap-on dildo is used anally on a man. Lovehoney have a nice little beginners' guide if you want to read a bit more on it.
Snowballing... And more anal exploration
We are determined to have sex, oral, vaginal and anal, naked in the sunshine this year.
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To have sex in the car as we have never actually got round to doing it
Honestly nothing.
We're already doing all the things I ever fantasised about.
Pegging, anal and the sex machine are regular events in our household.
I have 2 to-do lists. One with "people" and one with things. On the first list there's stuff like another guy with a prince Albert or other genital piercing, a heavily tattooed guy and a natural redhead. On the top of the second list there's a MMF threesome - preferably involving cucking -, using the door sex swing that a very generous member gifted me a while ago, and giving one of my OHs a prostate orgasm! 😊
We don't have a bucket list, but we have a "New things to try" list, that includes all sorts of ideas from all sorts of places.
KinkyMira wrote:
We don't have a bucket list, but we have a "New things to try" list, that includes all sorts of ideas from all sorts of places.
Wow, Mira. Like what?
I thought from your blog and other posts that your list would mainly be ticked off!
Nope. I've been collecting ideas for years (long before my husband came along), mostly picked up from articles, forums or erotica stories, or just weird things we imagine. I take the view that I should always be learning and trying new things, otherwise I'll stagnate, and that's when the wheels are more likely to start to fall off.
So I have things like:
positions - some of our favourite positions we've found that way.
toys - types of toy we don't have, and specific things to do with them.
red lines - because of my past, I had a whole load of red lines that I decided some time ago to test (given I'm in a safe and long term relationship). Some are no longer red lines, some still need to be worked on
pushing what we've done - so taking what we've done to the next step, just that little bit further.
acts - there are a number of things we haven't tried yet, that I fancy or are coming round to.
In short, it doesn't matter how much you do, there is always something new you can try.
Thanks Mira. Sounds like a fun list! What is the top of the list (next goal)?
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Quite a serious one AYW. Because of my past, I have triggering reactions to certain things, so I'm working on freeing myself from these trigger reactions. I'll only be totally free from my past once I've dealt with the triggers. I've already dealt with a few, there are a few more to do, and a number of things other things on the list really depend on my not triggering (role plays and the like).
Ok. Sorry to push. Good luck with that. It sounds like you have a much more positive life now so those goals will be in your reach!
No worries about pushing. Yes, things are much better, and I'm right up for dealing with the last few bits and pieces. x
KinkyMira wrote:
I take the view that I should always be learning and trying new things, otherwise I'll stagnate,
I love this. This is my life philosophy.
Oddly enough , I do not have an actual bucket list at my age . I do have a number of fantasies that I am 99% sure will never happen . The funnest part as you get older is that what appeals and or excites you changes . Plus physical limitations play a part as you age .